Member Since: October 14, 2007
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Last Update: October 14, 2007
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I was in a serious relationship with someone for over 2 years at least. We broke up off and on and all of the break-ups were his decision. And he keeps coming back! Each time he leaves it's for less than a month and he's back. Well, this time we went the whole summer apart and now he's back again for a friendship. I'm NOT ok with this, I got weak and started crying when he called me asking to be friends. Then, he started saying that he doesn't want to hurt me and that maybe if we manage as friends we could try again as a couple. I really cannot decide what to do.
I mean I'm in love with him, so obviously I want to be with him. But, I really don't like being his friend. We've been talking every night for 3 days and I'm just wishing it was more all of the time because he's very show offish and kind of a jerk as my friend. But, he's the best and sweetest guy as my boyfriend. The reason he broke it off so many times is because of fighting and fearing we won't make it.
Important Things:
-We are an INTERNET RELATIONSHIP
-We've met once and couldn't be happier with what we saw
-We are both 17 if this helps
And, you can guarantee a rating if you give me your honest opinion. I've just been crying for days and I could use some help:( (link)
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talking over the internet you can be someone your not,you can say things to someone and not truly mean it as your not face to face,if you love this man and he feels the same then you should really tell him,face to face,that way you will see his reaction if he agrees and he looks sincere then go for it,if you both still have doubts that its not gonna work and you feel you cant just be friends tell him that,whats the use of prolonging the agony of wanting something that you know deep down isnt going to work,if its what you want then fight for it if its not what you want and i mean truly what you want then you have to move on...it will be hard as you love him but you will have to make a decision, anyway goodluck :)
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