Member Since: October 27, 2007
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Last Update: March 12, 2008
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Okay so in the beginning of my junior year I had a crush on this guy and he had told me he really really liked me...soo I was talkin to my guy friend and askin if i should ask him out or sumthin and he said i should so somehow that got around and my crush started freakin out
and started ignoring me
and started talkin shit behind my back and makin fun of me in front of me cause he's friends with my friends soooo i was completely crushed for a month i was depressed out of my mind. He's an asshole of course but I just felt like a fuckin loser because of the complete and total humilliation and rejection. So anyway I'm pretty much over it but I'm not the same, before all that happened I was a happy go lucky girl, confident, highest self esteem ever and he pretty much tore me down little by little. I've never been able to fully recover...probly becuz i put up walls with everyone i meet becuz im afraid that i will get made fun of or get hurt again. So im never able to just be myself around anyone else except for my 2 best friends.
Can anyone help me to get over this so i can be me again??
I will rate a 5 to anyone who really tries to help :D
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Hey! this same thing happens to me. Honestly, it is really hurtfull. Try to make things better, dont let him bother you, there are tons of guys out there and he is just not worth wasting your time over. Try to be nice to everyone, there is no need to put up a complete shield, but you dont need to go poring your secrets out with everyone. Building trust is a hard thing, but once you do you can do it over and over agian. Your friends will stick by your side no matter what, and you should thank them for that. Lets see you happy again, cause life is to short to waste being sad.
Good luck =)
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