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Member Since: June 13, 2011
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Last Update: June 13, 2011
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
I came across this and thought I'd answer. I am not in the mental health profession. My experience is firsthand. 2 months ago, my husband jumped off of a bridge and died that night. I have spent most of my adult life with him, everyday, for years. What it has done to me emotionally you cannot begin to imagine. Images of his battered body and bloody face alternate with memories of our lives together. Soon after the memorial service, those who were not connected with you (extended family, distant acquaintances or even friends) will move on with their families, vacations, Facebooks, and the one or ones you left hurting the most will hurt alone. Trust me. I could not have answered this even 2 1/2 months ago. I didn't have a clue. If there is someone close to you, your older brother and his wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, I can tell you firsthand that you will scar them. I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you that with all certainty. Good luck to you.




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