Member Since: May 19, 2012
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Last Update: May 19, 2012
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My mother is very religious and tries to force me to be, too, but I'm REALLY not. But she keeps pushing me to be more like her or even my older sister. She says she loves me no matter what, but she still attempts to force me to be someone I'm not: a sweet little Christian-y angel. How can I deal with her without resorting to murder? (link)
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Just give her support in her religion. You can also tell her how you feel if neither of you accept than go your own way.
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s it weird that i just want to wear regular panties? all of my friends wear thongs like all the time now and they keep telling me i should to...but thongs look really uncomfortable i dont want anything stuck up my but im totally comfortable wearing my normal bikini panties...shud i try wearing thongs? (link)
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No they are uncomfortable and why go with what your friends wear? Your your own person. Express yourself in the wildest terms. Like Art, clothes, foods, anything. It doesn't matter if you loose your current friends. If that's the problem make new ones that accept you for you :)
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Okay so, there's this guy(age 17) I care about a lot. He has a ton of problems though and I really want to help him. His father died about a year or two ago and he moved out his mothers house and in with his alcoholic brother and two other guys. His mother seems to have problems of her own and has been bettering herself recently, going off to college and such. He and his mother never have had a real mother/son relationship and I can tell this really bothers him. I was thinking about messaging his mother(since there is no other way for me to get in contact with her) but I'm completely sure if I should or how I should do it. Please, I really need advice! (link)
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the best thing that I think is to talk to him first.
Then see what goes on after that.
Tell him how you feel.
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Can someone please help me, I have been really depressed for the past couple years, im 16 years old im really poor I have a dad who hits my mom, im 230 pounds ive been joining sports to lose weight( not working) my girlfriend cheats on me. I get into fights, I have hardly no friends, i have an anger problem and i pick fights with my dad. Lately after I found out my gf has been cheating on me, my depression has hit an all time high, I have been alienating my self from everyone for the past month. I had been having really bad suicidle thoughts lately, but I cant get myself to do it. Im not afraid to die, its just thought of how im going to die. Is there an afterlife, im I going to hell if I kill myself, will anybody care?. I just need someone to help me, because I have been driving myself crazy lately and im afraid I might do something ad. Can someone help me? (link)
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Hey,
myself is in a bad problem too, so no worries your not alone. I think that it is selfish to think that way though, like you think nobody gives. It's also selfish to kill yourself. You don't know 100% that nobody cares and what would happen to that one person you do leave behind?
You gotta think more about yourself, not whats around you. What is your goal in life? wanna be a doctor? Go for it, nothing can put you down. Just don't fall in the path your mom and/or dad fell in. Try to prove you can make the best of yourself.
You got siblings? Just talk to them, no matter how awkward. If you got more problem talk them out to somebody.
And why care about appearance, it's personality! plus you don't have to be a model to live. You just need the brains. if you got none then try. Try and never give up. That is what I do.
But if you need to be alone get money like a $20 and go outside at night. Buy a favorite drink then find a comfy place like a park or a lake then just drink your drink and just think. If you really wanna just think out loud. That's what I do when I get sad, angry, or just sick of life and I adore outside.
find what your good at. Stick to it, it'll make you happy with yourself and would seek others attention.
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