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Member Since: August 16, 2004
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Last Update: August 17, 2004
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umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx (link)
i know alot of pplz that are less than u and are 15 and 16... it's normal.. it might be because your skinny or some other reason... there isn't really a way to know if u'r done growning and even if you are .. later on your breasts will grow.. escpecialy while pregnate... don't worry and be happy


Okay so i admit, i've never had a boyfriend. im 14 years old and going into 8th grade. ive been told by guys that im really pretty and have a great personality. im not overweight, im not unpopular or stuck up. what keeps me from being something guys like? i have guy friends, but whenever i like a guy, they never like me back as much. i dont think highly of myself when im around people. i actually tend to be more shy then anything around guys. but, what can i do? i know every guy is different but... ugh im so stumped!! please help, if you answer my question good ill give you a rewarding 5! =) thanks!
ps: im not just trying to get a boyfriend because of people around me having them, its whenever i find someone i like, they dont feel the same... (link)
you say pplz say u'r pretty, u have a great personnality yaddy yaddy yadda... they might be intimadated and affraid they won't meet your expectations either that or u they think as u as a buddy... i have that problem to.. i can't get b/f but pplz say i'm pretty i'm really nice stuff like that.i don't know, maybe if you talk to one of your close guy friends he casn answer your question


I have been with my current boyfriend for quite a while, and I love him greatly, but I have begun to realize that I still have feelings for an ex that I had a while back. He was probably the first person I truly cared about, but then he ended it. I don't understand why after all of this time I am realising that I'm not really over him, and I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. I feel guilty having these feelings and at the same time they hurt. Anyone know what I can do? (link)
those feeling are natural, i meen i still have feelings for the first person i realy cared about. the reason is probably hey thats the first person you ever shared feelings with he'll stay in you mind forever, it's a really special thing.you'll probably get over it with time but maybe your realizing your relationship you have currently is as special as the one you had befor, it's no big deal, if you want to tell your b/f u can but it's your choice to me


I'm going into my senior year of high school and I haven't had a boyfriend in almost a year. (its by choice) But my question is (link)
i think you should get a boyfriend, not go boyfriend hunting but if ever you come to a guy who meetsall your expectations and is willing to go out with u ... go!! your senior year is basicly your last as a real kid,have fun.but don't over do it some pplz i know spend all and i meen ALL there time with boyfriend thats not good either, you have to know your priorities. school work familly and friends usualy come first so don't sitch all that cuz of a guy. and yes i say i you really like the sophomore guy ... try it...but be aware, he might not have the same ideas as do to what's a girlfriend


Im asken this ? again cuz i still dunno wat 2 do n im hopeing this time i will get more responces! Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him 'Bob'. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i -CANT- say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda, i mean not marry him.. but i wud stay with him for very long n try to make it last as long as possible. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. But now.. he kinda likes sum girl, lets call her 'K', n i tell him to go out w/her n stuff, but i am really jealous, i just act like i want him 2 be happy... well i do, it just wont make me happy if hes with her. Wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!

x0x signed confused n depressed (link)
this is kind of what is heppening to me. it's verry complicated i can't tell u exacly what to do cuz i don't know the guy, but it seems he likes u very much to but he tries to get over it. anyways what i did is i let him know i how i felt, talked about it and let him make his decision.you can't force the guy to like u and don't make it seem like u'r obssesed cuz that'll probably just make him back off,just have a big talk with him, he may like you to.




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