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Member Since: December 13, 2007
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Last Update: December 13, 2007
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ok i know its gonna be kinda confusing but i don't know exactly how to start,... i had a boydfriend, we were together for 2 years and a half, but everything started to destroy from the 1 anyversary, we started to have lots of problems with trust, becuase the 1 year i was so confortable with him, i was so sure that he would never ever do anything to hurt me and that i was the only one, but then i discover he started to like attention, cause usually not many girls will like him, but all of a sudden a lot of girls started to be interested on him, and the first time smoething like this happen i forgave him because i thought oh maybe he is not used to girls comming onto him so now he knows hes handsome and gets attention...cause there was this girl that was suppose to be his new friend and she was like saying lots of things like "hey do you like someone at school? knowing he has a girlfriend. and asking things like ..do oyyou think im pretty cause i think im sooo ugly ...so he would say something like of course your not ugly i think your really pretty and things like this, she used to make lots of comments like if she was so insecure about herself just for him to say nice things to her..when i found out about him i told him, and he was like oh sorry its just that i felt bad that shes so insecure about her looks (of course i was like "how can she be so insecure about her looks if she uploads hundreds! of pictures of herself in her blog?") and then he kinda understood that ,,,then ,..another thing like this happen, this super firendly girl started to receive comments from him like "you look soooo pretty in that picture ;)" things like this ,,and i found out and got so mad at him,..since then i haven't been able to trust in him again..now i found out he was receiving messages from a random girl on myspace like "oh your so hot your soo handsome" things like this ...and i was so mad i was like ok its not his fault that she wrote that ..but then he aswer! like "hey thnx whats your email?" and i got so mad and told him i couldn't trust in him and i wasnt' confortable with this ..his kinda popular in my city cause he has a band and things like this so that made easier for girls to approach to him, ...he used to be so insecure about his lokks while we were together ...but then ,,now with all this girl things he is so secure about his looks.....then another thing came.. i looked at his email account and he had this email from a girl like ohh baby how are you haven't talk to you please answer you know i love you please lets be friends again cutie please write me back....and i told him i saw that ...and he was like ...that doensn't mean anything its one simple email someone sent me and this girl is not even from our city so who cares if i answer ..i told him what was bothering me was not the mail ...was that he was answering back!...we broke up...but still when i log into his msn i saw like 50 new girls i didn't knew he had in his list...and im soo insecure now cause i wanna get back with him and hes constantly begging for me to come back with him...but i told him i just dont trust in him..for several things that happen...i know he wants me back,,and me too...but i don't like that kind of things :S like having hundreds of pretty girls on her list that they added him just to get to know him cause they are interested in him! please help!! im soooo confuse cause i wanna go back with him...but...im sick of having to be spying his email acount his msn his facebook, his myspace and worse finding things like this!! do you think i should just not go back with him??cause also i think that if he cared enough like he says he wouldn't be doing this kind of things over and over again :S ...im so confused please help hes become very flirty =S!! and i hate that !!! (link)
if that boy wants to talkto random girls just hope that his man whore self will find out that one of them is a man...............lol! well if he wants to have other girls then a pretty girl like you then get over hm


To make a long story short, I received a 3-day suspension today for making a really bad decision and pulling a prank that could have gotten worse if I wouldn't have ratted myself out. There were other people involved but I took all of the blame because if it weren't for me then it wouldn't have happened. A note was written by myself and 3 others that the administration found. I let the administration find it without thinking about the consequences.

Anyway, I was suspended for 3-days (a more than fair suspension) they were even nice enough to count today as day 1 which means I return to school Tuesday.
My question is about college. I have already been accepted to one college and am awaiting word from the other 2 that I applied to. How will this effect me? If I were to choose to go to the college I'm already accepted to and if I graduate, maintain my grades, etc., then will I still be allowed to go? After I graduate they ask for a final copy of my transcript which I'm not sure if it will have the suspension on it, probably though. What are my chances of being kicked out or them taking back the acceptance and saying nevermind, you're not accepted?

It's not an amazing college but I'm still worried. The other college I applied to is the one I really want to go to, (App State) but I'm afraid that my suspension will ruin my chances... Does anyone have any experience with this? (link)
well that was bad what you did but dont let that petty thing bring you down just forget about that and get into that college




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