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ok this may take a while but it's worth it. i have this guy friend, he's a sophomore and i'm a senior. we get along really well - we have a brother/sister relationship. i've liked him for a while and he likes me, except there are a few problems:
-we tried being more than friends for a little bit (hanging out, making out, etc.) but it didn't work out, i ended it, but i'm not sure why
-he's looking for a more physical relationship while i'm looking for a more emotional one
-if we went out and my friends found out, they'd kill me. they'd do everything they could to get us to break up because not one of them likes him
-i don't want to lead him on if i'm just gonna hurt him again
i know i may have left some things out. if you need more info just ask and i'll add it. thanks so much :) (link)
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ok those kind of relationships are never good...
1.if hes looking for sex and the inbetween stuff and your looking for the long term kind if relationship then itll only turn out bad and wont work, trust me im waiting till marraige and all hell try to do is push you into something you dont want to do and youll just end up getting hurt.
2.but...if you really like him then dont let yoiur friends stop you from going out with him but if your friend really really likes him then maybe you should talk to her about it first cuz friends can last forever while guys more then likely only last for a little while and its not worth losing your friends over.
It doesnt sound like hes that great for you, if you want a physical and emotional relationship then go for it, but make sure you dont let him pressure you into doing something youre not ready for cuz he might just want to get in your pants and when he does he might be done with you and your just gonna be setting yourself up for a heartbreak.i can get really into this so if you wanna talk more then my aim sn is bondbabethree, you can im me
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ok wow here goes the problem.. me and my boyfriend have only been going out for like 2 weeks but for some reaon i really like him and idk he gets mad really easy and like if he says something and i yell at him back he will be like o shut up and hang up on me or something and if i dont then he be like see how i got my bitch whipped..
i mean idk what to do my bestfriend went out with his best friend and they broke up.. and now im scared because he thinks that imma do what she did to him and try to get with someone else and we might not se each other that much any more..
but is this bad i mean is this leading to a bad relationship and how can i get him to beleive that i wont do that to him?
help me
shaiina (link)
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ok, well for one thing,. you dont love him, i mean really, 2 weeks is nothing and you cant fall in love with someone after 2 weeks of dating, unless youve known them for like ever and youve liked them for like ever and now yal;l are goin gout then thats a completely different thing, if you really love him then please correct me. but hes being an ass and i really think you could do better then that cuz its not a fair relationship if hes just gonna be like that, i mean it seems to me like hes more interested in leading you on and making you feel strongly for him so then he can make you feel like shit whenever you put him down, he likes feeling like hes in control of you and you have to show him your bitchy side, and if he cant handle it then he doesnt need to be such a dick..and a little tip..guys only act like dicks to make up for the ones they dont have.and hell yeah its leading into a bad relationship, possibly even abusive.more ?'s then im me at bondbabethree
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well there is this guy that likes me & i GUESS that i like him too but i don`t kno. well he asked me out but he said no, & he as all sad & doesn`t talk to me anymore..(we used to talk a lot) so yea..i don`t kno what to do.i don`t think i like him but i think i like his friend.i have been thinking if me & his friend went out he would be mad at me. so yea help? (link)
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well, if you dont like him then dont go out with him, its as simple as that. i mean if you like someone else but go out with him then that wouldnt be really fair to him...just be straight up honest with him and be like well i like you as a friend nothing more then that and i don tthink it would be fair to yo uif i went out with you while i liked this other guy. and as for the other guy, if he likes you and yo ulike him then go out with him, if your friend really likes you that much then he would want to see you happy right? he'll eventually get over it...its no tlike hes in love with you or anything...more ?'s, im me..bondbabethree
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