Member Since: August 1, 2008
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Last Update: August 1, 2008
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let me start off by saying i belive that God has a greater purpose in my life, than what i have in mind right now. im not sure what it is but i belive that. and the reason why i belive that, alot of friends i have are in to drugs, having sex outta maraige, smoking, drinking all that stupid stuff. and i try telling them that if they don't stop they will loose control of thier life, and get in alot of trouble. every time i tell them this, it happens. and what im having trouble to understand here, is WHY does this always happen. every single time i tell a friend or a person this, it happens that way. and i also don't get if God has put in the position to basicly minister to people, and try to lead them straight, or does this just happen for no reason. some any advise to ease my mind and help me with this would be really nice. (link)
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You cannot control other people. Everyone is reaching for the ultimate goal of happiness, and especially during the adolescent years this involves a lot of experimentation, mistakes, consequences and instant gratification.
Sex feels good. Drugs make you feel great. Your friends will probably figure it out, but at this point in their lives you cannot save them. Be a friend, but realize you cannot make choices for other people.
The beauty in this world is variation, besides.
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Also, don't ask a question if you don't want a range of answers. If you only want to hear a certain thing, then you don't need advice to begin with.
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