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Member Since: August 15, 2015
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Last Update: August 15, 2015
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Ok, so I started 8th grade about a week ago, and something happened to all my friends. I only have about 3 of them, but they're all acting weird. My best friend barely talks to me anymore, and avoids eye contact with me. There is a new student that she befriended, don't get me wrong, she's really nice, but not my best friend barely knows I exist. My other two friends are acting the completely opposite from last year. One of them doesen't want anything to do with us, and has found a whole new group of friends. The last one used to be a bully, but now she's being pretty nice to me. It feels like she's the only one that cares. Sometimes she can be a bit, harsh on me. She'll sometimes hit me, but were not that close. I feel really lonely, and I don't know what to do. Also, I don't know if this is the cause of this, but I'll mention it anyway, since I think this might be related to my question above. I keep hearing a girl singing, whispering, and whistling. I don't know if I'm hearing this because I'm lonely, or stress of some sort. Please help me! :( (link)
I really can't say what has pulled your friends apart from you.but can relate with 'coz it once happened with me.you can do either of the one thing you feel comfortable in doing. I personally did the second one 'coz I never feel comfortable to talk-it-out
1)talk to your friends. ask them,what's wrong between yourselves.you can do this only if you were damn open with all of them(or try asking one of them). probably,you'd get an answer
2)accept whatever's happening and move on. once you start finding happiness in others they pull away from you. so. find bliss within yourself. do whaever makes you feel good and special. work on yourself.work on your studies and once they'll find you happy alone and on a zenith they'll run for you I bet.even if not,i guarantee by doing this you'll pave way for some other good and nurturing people around while if you'll be lamenting for your old frnds you'll block the way to all good vibes in life




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