Member Since: September 3, 2011
Answers: 1
Last Update: September 3, 2011
Visitors: 396
|
| |
My teacher is 27 and Im 17 and he always asks me do I like him if I'm alone with him. I do have a crush on him, but I never tried to do anything with him and I never will. Sometimes I blush when hes around but that's it.If I go to the restroom and Im tardy to class, he will take me to class and he acts weird, he asks weird questions, like he asked me did I love him in front of our class. He will get really close to me and ask me do I love him and if I say no he just says that he loves me. I cant tell if hes serious sometimes or if hes just playing. Sometimes he makes me go in the hall so he can talk to me about nothing that's important. He calls me his girlfriend in front of teachers and students and they just laugh at him because they think hes joking. I don't know if hes playing or what. He'll be in class teaching and put his arm around me. I don't think he'll try to do anything but sometimes he gets close to me and its really uncomfortable, even when I back away. He just stares and smiles at me a lot. Or he'll walk over to my desk and stand there for a while. I'm a pretty strait forward person, so after a while I turn around and ask him what he wants. He'll ask if I need help or something. One time he looked up my schedule and took me out of PE class because I was mad at him and someone told him that I didnt like him, he took me out of class just to ask me if I didnt like him and he looked seriously hurt.
Maybe I'm just overreacting but I just wanted to know what somebody else's opinion was about the situation. Sometimes I just can't tell if hes joking because he knows I have a crush on him or if hes being serious. Please answer, thanks (link)
| |
My opinion? All of this is obviously gnawing away at you, considering you're at school this isn't right, this teacher seems to be messing with your mind which, teacher or not, is not right at all. Putting myself in your shoes, I'd confront him, make sure no one's there, just ask him everything you're wondering, start off by asking something like ' what is this whole 'girlfriend' act? is it some sort of joke, because i don't find it funny, it's really messing with my head' try start off a conversation about it, in this way you will get more out of him, he's more likely to confess what he's playing at. try sort things out, if this does not help matters, try speak to another teacher, maybe a friendly teacher, or possibly your parents? also, the things he does to you which makes you feel uncomfortable ( come close to you, put his arm around you) tell him you don't like this and would like him to stop, as bad as this sounds, maybe record the conversation you have with him, so you could analyse it, or if anything dramatic is said, so you could have proof of it, i really do wish you good luck, follow this advice and hopefully all will be okay x
|
|