Member Since: December 14, 2006
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*kind of a lot of intro into my question, sorry*
my birthday is in the summer, and so is my best friends birthday. my other friends is coming up soon.
my half birthday was just a few days ago, and my friends half and my other friends real is coming up soon.
so we have been saying for a few years now that at school we would celebrate each others half birthdays (and real one for the other girl) since we dont get to celebrate with each other during the summer.
last year my friends did nothing for me, but i got them something, by no means was it anything big but it was still fun and cute and all
this year we have been talking about it for weeks. they have been saying that we need to do this and that for each other and really celebrate this year. when my day came up, nothing. nothing at all, just like the years before.
at the end of the day i subtly reminded them of what today was, just in case they had been planning stuff but forgot(which would have sucked anyways) but the next day i went into school and still nothing.
so it sucks that they did nothing for me again ok? right!?!? YES!
but then that same day they start talking about what im going to do for them, they're like you need to do this for 'so and so' and ill get her this.
and then 'so and so' is like, you should do that for 'missy miss' and i'll do this.
they are like saying that i should wrap their lockers and buy them balloons and presents and all this shit.
but they never did anything for me! NOT ONE SINGLE THING! NOT ONE SINGLE YEAR!
i mean, it terrible what they are trying to do to me but i dont want to be mean or rude to them...(even though they deserve it...)
--Should I just suck it up and be nice to them even though they really hurt my feelings?
--Or should I just do what they have been doing to me, ignore it?
--Oooor, Revenge! haha, just kidding.....sort of... (link)
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I personally think that you should tell them how you feel. Say.. well why should i even buy you guys stuff when i never got anything for mine.
explain to them what they are doing to you because it obviously means something to you if your going to post it on the internet.
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Alright so here's the deal. My so called best friend [who will be named emily] is being extremely mean to me. I hate her to be honest, why we are still friends is beyond me. Seriously i think she brain washes people. She isnt nice. I mean i love her to death some times but other times i wish death was an option. alright that sounds a little extreme but im trying to say i wish she could see how the way she treats me is effecting me. Let me start of by discribing her. when we were in 4th grade when i first moved to this school, i didnt really know her, i mean she was "popular" in that little kid type of way and you know i was trying to fit in so i decided i wanted to be her friend. it wasnt until 5th grade that we started to become friends. she was nice but we werent that great of friends. i became really good friends with her best friend {she will be named marie] and i loved her she was soo cool and we could laugh and joke about anything, but thats when i started to lie, ever since i moved here, i lied about everythinG! i told ppl i was a ballerina and i was born in a taxi, anything and everything i would lie about. and you know being at the end of fourth grade you start learning to hate people, and to talk shit. well one day my marie made me really mad and i started talking to emily and i was talking about marie. then emily told marie what i had said and we stopped being friends. i didnt really care that emily did that because really i wanted to be her friend but i did miss marie. i started to hang out with emily more and we ended up hanging out a whole summer together! i loved it she was so nice and funny it was great but by the time 7th grade came, we hated eachother. i finally was done with her shit so i told her that i didnt want to be friends with her any more and we just werent. it was hard but she treated my like crap. when ever she was mad at me she would turn everyone against me and they all listened to her, like i said she is a brain washer. things just werent the same. in 8th grade we were both suspeneded thats when we stareted hanging out and now we are sophmores and things are starting to fall down again. imean i think the only reason why i havent told her to f**k off is because im afraid they will all take her side. what should i do? id rather have no friends then ones that are btiches.
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k.. well first of all if you guys were 'best friends' then you shouldnt wish death upon them.. weither they get you mad or not.. Welcome to highschool. girls are nothing but drama now.. if they dont get what they want then they will find a way. if she does nothing but talk shit and brain wash people to get them not to talk to you then i mean.. whats the point of being her friend. the more and more you guys hang out and keep being friends, its just going to get worse..
but like i said. its highschool. and girls are nothing but drama.
believe me.. i was best friends with this girl from 4th grade all the way till mi senior year started.. i stopped being friends with her because she has changed so much in 1 year!.. she wus pretty much living off of drugs and lies and it got me mad. im not telling you what you should do but im trying to give you advice.. there are more girls out there that you can be friends with. popular or not. if your not happy with being friends with the popular girls.. then forget them. make YOURSELF happy.
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