Member Since: July 18, 2008
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i dont even get whats wrong with me most of the time. sometimes, everything will be fine. like, ill be hanging out with my boyfriend and his house or at the store or something. and then suddenly, all my energy and happiness gets sucked out and im up in space and i feel like dying and he keeps asking me whats wrong and i keep telling him nothing. most of the time it is just nothing, but its bringing a wedge in between our relationship.
i love him to death, and i think he loves me, too. but whenever i get upset or depressed, i dont like talking. i just want to sit and stare at something or just lay down and go to sleep. so whenever he says "i love you" i just nod and say "mmhmm" and he thinks im mad at him BUT IM NOT!! these random depressions are ruining everything and im always upsetting him, and upsetting him just upsets me even more.
i tried to tell my parents once that i was depressed but they pulled the old "you're a teenager, its just hormones" gag and so i never tell them anything.
i probably wont kill myself, but i really want to. i was raised christian, and also raised to believe that if i kill myself, i burn. and im afraid of hell.
i think im mostly worried about not being with my boyfriend in the future. hes left me before, and whose to stop him from doing it again? i just cant handle it anymore. and i dont like being a downer. around him, especially.
im 16/f, btw. if anyone has any advice, please share. i dont know what to do anymore. :( (link)
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i completely understand what you're going though because i went/am going through it too. sometimes i feel content with my life but at times, i feel like im shutting down. whats important is that you keep moving on. life is a precious gift and to waist it or shorten it is a mistake. what you need to do is let your feelings out to someone close to you. family or friends can help as well as this website. maybe just writing it down in a journal. don't worry about your bfriend leaving because maybe the problem is your scared to be alone. become comfortable in your own skin by whatever means necessary and take it from there. it seems to me that is he really loves you, he wouldnt leave you. try talking to him about why you're depressed and see if he can help. stay positive and you'll get through it. if your feeling down, push yourself. hope this helps
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I'm really like this girl who is in my school ok but I'm really nervous to ask her out as i dont know her and im not in her class.So I was thinking of getting my cousin to do it as he is in her class and I was wondering to girls find that a bit weird.SO MY QUESTION IS DO GIRLS HATE IT WHEN SOMEONE GETS THEIR FRIEND TO ASK THEM OUT FOR THEM?
(I wouldn't do it myself as i couldn't stand getting rejected like that) (link)
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never send someone else to do the dirty work. It feels impersonal to the girl. what you can do because of your fear of rejection is to have your cousin find out if the girl likes you. Then take id from there. if she's into you you can ask her out without fear of rejection. If she's not you save yourslef the heartache and fine someone new. Let me know if this helps!
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