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Member Since: March 26, 2009
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Last Update: March 27, 2009
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hi im 17, and a junior in high school. (i turn 18 in december) i am white, and live with just my mom. we dont get along well at all, infact we just got into a fist fight the other day, but thats not the problem. oh and one quick little fact about my mom, shes racest.

the problem is that my boyfriend is black. and we oviously have sex. he is also 21. we used a condom, but it broke. and now i am pregnant for my first time. oh and one other thing, my mom dosent know i have a boyfriend. he, by the way, wants to keep the baby.

i adore my boyfriend, and he has way more then enough money to support me every step of the way for my pregancy, and is planning on renting an apartment for us as a family, but i want to know what you think i should do.

i believe my mom will flip when she finds out im not only pregnant but im pregnant with a black child.

is there any way i can move out?
what if my boyfriend and i break up, and im stuck a lonley white girl with a black child?
what would you do?
what should i do?
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I think you need to do what is best for you and your baby. Your boyfriend sounds lovely and like he's really stepping up to his responsibilties.
You are old enough to move in with him, it sounds as though you would be much better off living with him than you mum.
You are pregnant, the last thing you need is fights and stress, so pesonally, i would say live with your boyfriend where you can be in a safe enviroment.
This is what I would do too. xx




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