Member Since: July 31, 2009
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Last Update: July 31, 2009
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Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now we have been having sex for about 8 months and have never had any problems. I have always know I had a septate Hymen and always worried that it could get in the way but it never seemed to as he is very careful. BUT...The other night he got it a bit wrong and snapped it at 1 end.It was VERY painful for a few seconds and i bled alot for a few hours and then a bit the next day and i was quite uncomfortable.I am fine now but as i have been able to analyse the 'damage' i know that it has left the rest of my hymen hanging there and it really is horrible. My boyfriend and I are very close so he knows about it and he says it doesnt bother him at all....but it really does look horrible,and has made me really worried about him going down there and having sex again.im worried its goin to get caught and i dont know what i should do as i have no one to talk to who can help. is this a common thing to happen and will my hymen wear away in time? (link)
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Hello love, i Know you must be feeling quite strange about the whole thing, but you are not alone, this is quite a common occurence and happens to many people with septate hymens, I am one of them. Bascially if this dangling bit of skin is causing you distress all you need to do is see a gynaecologist and he or she will remove it for you, its a simple procedure lasting up to 10 minutes and you have the option of going under anesthetic so don't worry! You may not be able to have sex for up to two weeks afterwards but this is all about regaining your confidence and feeling beautiful so do whatever your comfortable with :)
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