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25/f
I am talking to a guy. Let's call him Andrew.
I met Andrew through mutual friends and I immediately had a crush on him. But I didn't do anything for years until later this year.
I didn't really talk to him until then. When we first met up, I wasn't attracted to him. I was just getting to know him. When we first met up, he kissed me. He told me he thought we had immediate chemistry and he wanted to take me out on a date. I agreed.
The next time we met, we kissed again. He said he wanted to see me again but he was going on an international trip for a month. He said he was going to travel to many places during this time. He asked I would be seeing a lot more of him when he got back.
During the month he was gone, we were speaking everyday. However, the things he was telling me were missing so many puzzle pieces. It was as if I was putting together a beauty and the beast puzzle but was getting pieces from nine other puzzles, and none of the puzzles had all of the pieces.
For example, he was apparently traveling to Europe, Australia, etc. but was still awake while we were awake and was inactive/asleep while we were asleep. If you were international, you would think there would be a time difference.
I also found out geography was not his greatest strength because he somehow had internet the whole time when he flew from Melborne, Australia, to Moscow, Russia. He also was apparently buying his tickets at the last minute. That would be very expensive.
At some point, I started getting suspicious and asked some of my close friends who met him before I did. Once I mentioned his names, my friends immediately got cautious and became overprotective. But it's because none of them knew what he did for a living, none of them really knew anything about him, either. Which became a red flag.
My friend has a friend who went to school with Andrew. He was told he didn't have suits back then, he wasn't going to bars, and he was fairly nerdy. But he didn't know much about him because they didn't hang out.
I ended up doing a background check on him and everyone that kept coming up was a different age. I had to confirm with Andrew's former classmate, that he lied about his age by only three years.
Now that I think about it, I pieced it together. It explained why him and his friend looked at each other weirdly when he said he was 26. He's really 29. I can't wrap my head around why he would lie to me in the first place. It also explains when he told me his sister was 36, I said that was a large age gap, by a decade. And he paused and had to think to himself, realizing that he had lied to be previously.
I have not confronted him, yet. That's because I have not seen him since he's gotten back. We tried meeting up, but we were not successful. He wants me to see him tomorrow, but I'm not sure if that's going to fall through, either.
I don't know why he lied. I don't know if he was saying this to impress me, or if he's trying to impress those who went to high school with him (proving that he's different). I don't know if he's just messing with me. I don't know what he wants from me. All I was told by other people, was to be wary of him.
What are your opinions? What do you think I should do? (link)
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Why bother yourself thinking about if he is lying to you or telling the truth. If you truly love him, you would go through every means to protect your relationship. Remember you don't have any concrete evidence to just say that he is present and didn't travel like he said. I was in the same situation some years back, my girlfriend always tells me she was going away for a business trip, i always believed her because i loved he. Even though i was suspicious that she was cheating, i had no concrete evidence to use against her until a friend of mine introduced me to some hacker guy who helped me o hack into her device, so the next time she came around and told me she was traveling i gave her my usual response so she let.SO WE WERE TEXTING AS USUAL WHEN THE HACKER TOLD ME WHERE SHE WAS. WENT TO THAT EXACT LOCATION WHICH ISN'T TOO FAR FROM HER HOME HERE IN MILWAUKEE ONLY FOR ME TO SEE THAT SHE WAS SHOPPING WITH HER BOSS AND THEY WERE HOLDING HANDS TOGETHER IN THE MALL.You can do the same just to be sure before jumping into conclusions. you can contact the hacker on adouchambers@consultant.com
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