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k so, i have been really good friends with this guy since the end of last school year and we have liked eachother on and off through out this time but we have never dated. but recently i told him that i like him. and he told me that he liked me too but didnt want a girlfriend and he told me he felt like a jerk for saying it but he said that he didnt want me to wait around for him because our friendship wont turn into a relationship. and, i mean i really like him. more than ive ever liked anyone and i feel that if we acctually gave eachother a chance we could have something really good and special. theres just times where hes kind of left out and i go over to him and sit with him. and he does the same for me. i don't get it though. if he likes me enough why wont he try us out. but, he said he liked me. but what i dont get is if you like someone enough you would date them. so is he lying or telling me the truth. and lately he hasnt been talking to me in school or on the computer like he usually does. and to tell you the truth, im crushed.i know its not that big of a deal. but, i just really feel as if we would be good for eachither; anytime we talked or hungout we got along really well and the conversation wasnt delayed or anything and hes just a really good person to talk to. he listens and helps me with anything i need.
oh, and sorry that this is soo long.
i don't really have a question but like, i need advice. what do i do how do i found out if hes lying and i just don't know. is there anything i can do to get him to change his mind? :p anything will help. (link)
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I had the same problem with my best friend. Just like you he told me that he liked me and even loved me but he didn't want a girlfriend. I was so confused and thinking WTF U LIKE ME BUT YOU DONT WANT ME... lol you get the picture. So I decided to talk to him about it and I said," Is there a reason that you don't want to go out with me?" and he was all like Um well I'm too busy with school and basketball. So I dropped the subjct and then my friend asked him what the real reason was and he said that he didnt want to lose a good friend. I thought it was cute and all but like you I really thought that we would be good together and we could make it work. I wasn't even concerned about when we would breakup because I'm the kind of person who likes to be friends with my EXs. So... maybe that is his reason, he doesn't want to lose a good friend. You can't really be sure though until you ask him. I think that you should ask him for all of his reasons. And if you feel uncomfortable doing it then ask a friend to do it. Once you know his answer then it will be much easier for you to get him to date you. Be persuasive following his answer. Try to prove him wrong. When you find out the answer inbox me, and I can give you more advice on how to get him.
Hope I helped a little
good luckk =]
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