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This is more a question for the ladies, but men are perfectly welcome to answer it too.
I'm a guy (obviously) and I've had long hair since I was about 17 or so (I'm 23 now). From a personal standpoint I like having long hair but I'm beginning to wonder if people see something different than what I really am when they look at me. This is especially true of the women I've dated. I seem to attract the type of women who are the complete opposite of me. Myself I'm fairly deep into the conservative side of things, I'm religious, etc... But my exes, who were attracted to guys with long hair, were almost my complete opposites on many views which eventually resulted in break-ups. I've been called a "hippie" and a few other things when I'm actually a very conservative soul.
So I guess my questions are... Do some women (possibly the ones that I would like to be with) take guys with long hair seriously? What is your first impression about the personality of a long haired guy? Do we all seem like flippant elf-boys on first glance?
I'm looking for honest opinions, not what you "THINK you'd think" but rather what you really do think if that makes any sense. And if you find this topic funny, feel free to laugh, as I am laughing right now when writing it. Also, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I couldn't think of a better one, even the relationship category. (link)
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I am also attracted to guys with long hair. In fact I think the only kind of guys I am attracted to are the ones who have long hair, lol. Guys with long hair have always been the hotspot for me. Most of the guys I've dated or knew had long hair were very intelligent and interesting. And also every single longhair I've been with we were always complete opposites, but we got along quite well and were able to tolerate each other's belief standards and such. To me having long or short hair shouldn't really matter. Girls and guys will take certain people seriously depending on their personality and outlook on life and so on. So, you shouldn't worry too much about it =) As long as you like the way you are, awesome, don't worry about what others think. You may attract opposites, but if you know how to handle a mature relationship with lots of compromise if need be and are tolerant of each other, go for it. Nothin' is stopping you =) Happiness is always available to those who are willing to make it happen.
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