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Member Since: August 20, 2014
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Last Update: August 21, 2014
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It's starting to hurt my feelings. My family always goes out to eat or to the mall and "forgets" about me. And at school all the teachers forget about me. And both years in high school (I graduated early) I paid for an activity card but didn't get one until I went to complain about not having one even though everyone else got one. And with my drivers license I've had four of the temporary ones now because the state keeps forgetting to make my permanent. And whenever I go to the dentist or doctor or anything I always check in so they know I'm there then after I wait for about an hour and a half I go ask why it's taking so long and they say they forgot about me. It's probably just bad luck but is there anything I can do to make people realize I exist? It's honestly hurting my feelings. (link)
Well today I encourage you to embrace these feelings and turn them sorrow emotions into a heap of Confidence! Say this:"Reboot"!!!!!

Our feelings and emotions are very powerful characteristics of our human nature in which we must use them correctly in order to reap the GOOD benifits out of any situation. Think about it, when someone makes you angry by calling you hurtful names; your anger is not to cowardly sucker punch someone in the face, rather a signal to let you know that it is time to protect yourself with boldness from the hurtful name calling because those names do not identify who you really are.


So "reboot" your confidence, you are an unique individual perhaps you have some deep treasures that you must pull out of inside you. Then you will notice that because of these great treasures people will start seeing the uniquness out of you. This special treasure could be a smile, a new hobby, or a gifted talent.

To conclude "Reboot" your feelings and emotions turn them into a Solid rock of Walking Confidence!!.Keep reminding yourself that you are special and that NO ONE ELSE IS LIKE YOU!

P.s. May God Bless You, become a strong believer & follower in Christ Jesus for he is the one who holds all the answers to your questions!!!




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