Member Since: May 15, 2011
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Last Update: May 15, 2011
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In a nutshell, I hate my stepdad. Well, HATE is a strong word, so let's just say I highly dislike him.
My mother met him about 5 years ago, and they got married a year later. He was nice to me and my sister during their courtship, but since he married my mom he's turned into an ass. Well he's really mean to me and my sister. Neither of us has a bf so he says to our faces that were lesbians. When I had my 25th birthday he told me in front of my mother that I must be a dyke because all of his daughters were married by my age. He always compares us to his daughters who are all married.
My sister has a weight problem and he calls her fat and a slug. He convinced my mother to kick her out of the house while she was still in college. My sister is a good person, she's quiet and studies to get good grades but he tells my mom that she deserves to be kicked out on the street. I think he wants my mom all to himself. He even told me once that he was "sick of me always coming around". I live in another town and maybe visit my mom once every two weeks, so I don't know what he's talking about. On Xmas day when I went to visit them I even heard him yelling at my mom! He was calling her a "stubborn woman" because she asked him to help cut up the turkey. Every one else can see this guys a jerk except for my mother.What can I do? I've already told my mom that she shouldnt have married him but she's in love with him and doesnt want to listen.
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Wow, you have practically discribed my stepdad, except my stepdad is the most unbelievable child-like hippocritical bigot, he also puts up the best act infront of others, and it's the psychological pain that is so hard to bear, and when you try to tell someone about your situation and it doesn't seem like much cos it can't really be put into a few simple words.
he as 3 children, 1 hasn't talked to him in 18 yrs, 1 in 3 yrs, and another which is still hesitant.
i guess what i'm trying to say is that you're not alone, there are many of us out there trying to put up with these abominations of human beings, and that all the best, i guess you shouldn't try and convince your mother, rather you have to endure the pain for another few years till you have a job and is capable of moving out. and when you're at the peak of your carrer you, he'll be dead :D
another note, i'm only 16 and i have many years to go :(
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