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Q: ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha
Talk to your dad about your boyfriend and his proposal. Some dads are like that; they hate any guy who tries to take their little girl away. Get your dad to meet him, and let them talk for a little while. Also, does your dad know that you're pregnant? If he doesn't, break it to him gently. If he does, use that as a reason for accepting your boyfriend's proposal. All in all, if your dad won't accept your boyfriend when you're at this age, maybe you should wait till your older, or at least out of college, to get married to him. Make sure that your boyfriend helps with child support!

Q: hey ok i have a cold sore on my lip from making out and its not rally big yet its just starting and i hate having it on my lip cuz it looks weird does anybody know how i can get rid of it before it gets big? and how long do they take to go awya? help plz!
Ask your mother or a doctor to prescribe a medicine for you. There are medicated lip balms and other things out there that can help you with the sore. Also, you could just wait for it to go away. I've had them before, and they went away soon enough. :)

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