Member Since: January 17, 2006
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Last Update: January 20, 2006
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i'm 15 and my ex boyfriend is 16.. we broke up back in july.. we'd been going out for 9 months and 2 weeks prior.. we were both of each others longest relationships.. we broke up alot before but this time it was for good.. well in october i found out i was 5 1/2 months pregnant.. ya i know.. he was alittle supportive but not until he found out i was going with adoption because i don't want to be a mom and there's no way i could handle that change right now.. finally in late december he started to call & come over -- it was a big change becuase he wanted nothing to do with me all summer & i hate to admit it but i was even told by 2 counselors & my mother that he was honestly my "first true love" & when he left i hit rock bottom & of course i'm still not over him.. but my problem is -- one of the times he came over we were hanging out as friends & the next thing i know we were making out & doing things we used to like we were going out again but when i asked him later on why we can't just go back out he said he can't just jump back into a relationship but that he truely did love me & i believe it because i'm pretty positive i was his "first true love" too.. so now when we hang out (which is not alot at all maybe 1 time every 2 weeks) we act like we're going out.. we hold hands & kiss & tell each other we love each other but there's 2 girls in my grade he flirts with soooo much & they want him all of a sudden & they are definitely competition material & i know he likes them but don't know if he wants them.. yet he tells me he hasn't done anything with any other girl since we broke up & he just misses what we had.. yet he doesn't act like he plans on having us get back together.. so do you think i honestly have a chance & just need to wait & MAKE him fall back in love with me or is he possibly just using me when no one's around to get what he wants & once the adoption's final he'll just leave again for good..? i'm still madly in love with him & i don't want anyone else - yet i don't want to play friends with benefits if thats all it's going to be but i'd do anything with him if it'd make that spark come back for me.. what should i do?? (link)
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I think it was smart of you to go with adoption that way you can still find where the baby lives and be a part of its life. Now the x tho i think he is just useing you to get some. I think you need leave him in the past before you get hurt again. I understand this can be hard but it needs to be done. It seems like he will be there but he wont always be there. those other girls are most likely on his mind when he is with you. he is trying to do the right thing but just cant stay focused on the person who needs the attention. I am sorry to be hard but you need to see the truth
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is a psp worth the money or should i get a ipod (link)
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I think it would be smarter to get the ipod because it will be used more and a PSP will just get old and collect dust or break. It is up to you but think about it.... practly every year a new playstaion comes out so why go for some thing that will change every year when you can get the ipod and it wont go out of date because it is so useful
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