Hey
My name is Jasmine im 14 years old and im from cali! I'm gonna b a freshman in high school next year! yay! but im a lil nervous, ya know i got the pre-carnation jitters!
Dont be shy to ask me a question, ask me anything and i'll try my best to answer it. i'll get a picture of me up as soon as i can!
E-mail: ingajazz@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Cali
Age: 14
AIM: Musikchika14
Member Since: July 12, 2004
Answers: 12
Last Update: July 13, 2004
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ok...i broke up w/ my b/f about a week before school and we used to be best friends, but since he got a new g/f hes been nuthing but an asshole to me and he like never talks to me, but he gets jealous when i talk about my other best friends, or other guys. wat do i do? (link)
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you should ask him about it. ask him why hes being that way, and why he gets jealous when you talk about your other best friends or other guys. And if you miss your guys friendship youi need to let him know that. Try to get alone time with him when hes not with his girlfriend. just talk to him. thank you for your quesion and i hope this helps. Jasmine
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hey jazz, ok i really like this guy but hes oe of my best friends and he likes me too...along w/ 2 other ppl who are also my best friends.one of my guy friends says i should ask him seeing as we like each other but he doesnt want a girlfriend should i just suck it up and stay friends(w/ benifits)or wat?? (link)
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if you really like this guy, you'll wait for him. if he says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now you should respect that. just be his friend (for now) ;) maybe even friends with benifits if you both thinks its a good idea. just dont pressure him into a relationship. just be his friend for now until he's ready. thank you for your question, i hope this helps you. Jasmine
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my boyfriend, well ex-boyfriend, cheated on me w/ some hoe. and i haven't talked to my friends and i haven't eaten alot and i've been really depressed. i've also been crying for a little over a week now and it's just like.... like someone took my heart out and stomped on it and it won't stop hurting. i don't know how to make the pain go away? (link)
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this may seem like a hard thing to do but you have to move on. pick a day to go out with your friends and go scam on guys! check some out and flirt with them. forget him hes a loser, if he couldnt see how great you were, then hes a lowlife scum who wont have a decent woman. but you have to stop torturing yourself like this, u need to forget him and move on. whenever you start to feel depressed or anything again just repeat these words in your head "he wasnt good enough for me!" ok well thanks for your question and i hope this helps you. Jasmine
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hey i'm having trouble finding a job, and i'm afraid i'll get fired because my previous employments landed me all into getting fired. and i owe rent for my parents. i don't know where to find a job? i've tried locally and papers and internet. i'm afraid i've already hit rock bottom. (link)
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to be honest with you this isnt exactly my strong point, im only 14 and dont know much about the job world. but i would suggest trying some small jobs like teenagers do. like babysitting for your neighbor or mowing the lawn, and while your doin these little jobs to earn some cash check the newspapers and internet to see if you see any jobs. if you find one set up and interview and go for it! thatnks for your quesion i hope this helped you in someway or anyway, Jasmine
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well my friend has a crush on my ex boyfriend and a long time ago we made a promise we wouldn't go out w/ eathothers ex's once we started dating. she broke that promise awhile ago and now it's ruining our friendship. plus i saw him at the mall 2 days ago w/ a different chick making out. and i don't no how to tell her w/o making her think i'm just saying that to make them break up. i just want my friend back. (link)
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tell her first and if she wont believe you then find a way to show her. find out wat hes doing one day and go to the same place with your friend and look out for him and show her the truth. or have another friend ask him out (as a con so your other friend can see) and show her. if she sees she will believe and trust me she will have no reasons to ever doubt you. Thank you for your question i hope this helps. Jasmine
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hi jasmine i'm sorry to bother you but my daughter uses this sometimes and i was wondering from your point of view, if you could help. you see my husband and i have been getting into arguments lately about bills work the usual husband wives thing. and my daughter fears it's recking our marriage and we see councilers twice a week but it doesn't really get out what really bothers my husband and i think he does have a problem beside of the bills and work. and our family therapist told us to try this to see if it helps too. so if you had some ideas for advice on this situation i'd very much appreciate it, and so does my daughter. (link)
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Well, i think that maybe you should try to have a family meeting, kind of talk with just the family no therapists or councilers. just sit down and have a long discussion about how you all feel and everything. Maybe without all the therapists and councilers you all will find youselves more comfortable just talking about things with the family, instead of this person paid to listen. and who knows if they are really listenin, they could be daydreamin and then make up some weird mumbo-jumbo you dont understand. the only thing i've ever really heard a therapist say is how does that make you feel? and that really doesnt get you really anywhere, so i believe that you'll get a better outcome if you plan one day to sit donw and have a family meeting, to get all you feelings and everything out. just do your best to stay calm and dont argue just talk about things in a civilized manner. well thank you for your question and i hope this helps you. Jasmine
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I HAVE A SERIOUS PROBLEM WITH MY FRIEND. A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO MY FRIEND AND I WERE AT THE BEACH AND SOME GUYS PASSED BY US, MY FRIEND WENT OVER TO THEM AND SAID HEY DO YOU WANT TO HANG OUT. BOTH OF THEM LOOKED AT HER AND LAUGHED AND SAID, LOOK AT YOU. NOW SHE THINKS IT'S BECAUSE SHE'S FAT AND SHE'S NOT FAT AT ALL. BUT NOW SHE WENT ON THIS CRASH DIET AND SHE'S BEEN LOOKING PALE AND TIRED. I TOLD HER YESTERDAY I WAS GONNA TELL HER PARENTS AND SHE SAID TO BUT OUT. NOW I'M STUCK. IF I TELL I'M AFRAID THAT SHE'LL NEVER WANT TO BE MY FRIEND AGAIN. AND I WANT HER TO GET HELP. WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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This is a sticky situation but you should definately tell her parents. If you says she is looking pale and tired thats really not good. she needs help now or it might take a turn for the worst. she may hate you for telling in the beginning but she'll thank you in the long run because you will have saved her life. so you do need to find a way to tell her parents, and get her help ASAP! thank you for you question and i hope this helps you. Jasmine
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ok....... i have a problem my parents want me to go to the same college as them when they were my age and to have the same job as them..a lawyer. they told me they want me to stay in the family business. my family owns a very expensive lawfirm. anyways it's not what i want. i wanted to become a pediatrician, but i'm afraid of wut my parents will think. they're the type that will shut you out of their life and not care. i'm so lost can you help? (link)
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well i believe that you should have a long talk with them about this. Tell them how you feel, tell them being a lawyer is not your dream tell them you wanna be a pediatrician. But remember to tell them that you value them wanting you to be in the family business, but thats not what you want. just express how you feel about this but let them tell you their point of view too. But clarify that its not what you want and they cant force you. im sure they will understand and try to see where your coming from. thank you for your question and i hope this helps. Jasmine
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hey jasmine.
one of my best friends is leaving for mexico on thursday and im leaving for an all girls christian camp and me, him, and my other best friend want to have a sleepover at his house and my other friend is aloud to but idk if i would be aloud to or if my parents would even consider it should i ask them or jsut tell them i am spending the nite at my other best friends house and spend the nite at his (link)
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well i think you should ask your parents. because if you hide things from them things might get worse, when they find out that you did that with out their permission. if you sit down and have an adult convorsation with them about it, i believe that yuor parents will definatley consider it because, you actually asked them and had a convorsation with them about it instead of just bein all quick and short about something like that. so tell them dont just do it. Jasmine
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HI JASMINE,
MY NAMES CINDY LOO HOO AND I LOST MY VIRGINITY A COUPLE NIGHTS AGO.
MY MO SAYS I SHOULD BE TOTALLY HONEST AND OPEN W/ HER ABOUT EVERYTHING, BUT I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL HER THIS. WUT DO I DO? (link)
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Well Cindy
i believe that you should tell your mom, because it would be worse if she found out from someone else besides you. She'll still might get mad but at least you were honest with her and you dont have to deal with it building up inside you and you'll have a better relationship with you mom after that. Jasmine
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hey jazz,
sometimes my dad doesn't pay attention to my feelings or anything i have to say and it's like i don't exist and he favors my brother (i believe at times) and when my brother does stuff to annoy me my dad treats it like it's nothing. i don't know how to fix this problem, i've tried talking to him about it but then he always gets back by something i did in the past. how do i deal w/ this conflict (link)
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i dunno if you just tried to talk to your dad alone or if it was a whole family thing. i would suggest calling a family meeting, and talk about it all together, so you might have people on your side instead of just you and your dad and he attacking you with his words. during this meeting express how you feel, say you feel neglected and that you feel that your dad favors your brother. dont hold back. just dont say anything to get yourself grounded or something like that. lol. well thats my suggestion to you for now if it doesnt work tell me here and i'll try to come up with another way to help you.
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I have medium-long super straight blonde hair. i was going to go super hippie and grow it out to my butt, but lately i have been wanting to cut it really short.. any opinions? (link)
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I would say get it cut a little bit. About somewhat passed your shoulders. And give yourself a new and different look. Put some colored hilights in it to draw attention to yourself. Insead of getting it layered like alot of people have i would suggest getting it slithered (where your hair ends up bein many different lengths.)
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