Member Since: April 8, 2021
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Hello. I am 17 and a female. I'm reaching a point where I do not know what to do in this friendship that I'm in anymore. She is 18. I dread seeing her everyday. It's a long distance friendship, so it would be quite easy to break off. She's very clingy and possessive, while I am distant and need time alone.
I have known her for around 3 years. She will say things like, "I get out of bed for you", or, "you will never find a friend like me again." She has attempted for those 3 years to get me to be in a serious relationship with her even though I am obviously uncomfortable and decline her advances. I am not interested in the same gender, and I am not interested in her either. She also needs constant reassurance that I don't hate her. I'm reaching a point of no return and I do not want anything to do with her anymore. I don't hate her, I like her. I just tend to have more bad times than good times. If anybody could give me their opinion on this, I would be very grateful. (link)
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Hi I feel like I know how you feel. I also want to leave a friendship which I dread to talk to or even text. I think you should leave the friendship if you feel like you can approach her about how you feel and you think that she will try to understand you go for it. If not I suggest to leaving the friendship whether that be completely cutting her off of jus simply telling her you don't want to be friends anymore. I believe that people friends or not should respect that some people just don't want to talk everyday. I feel that same way I need my space. Then again I am also struggling with a friendship of my own and don't know what to do but if you feel that my advice is the advice you need then ill be happy that I can help you with your friendship.
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