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Member Since: July 29, 2013
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This is a question for men, preferably, around 30. I am 21 years old (F) - I'll be 22 in December.

I was just wondering if there was any chance that a man around 30 years old would be interested in someone my age beyond something just purely sexual. I feel like maybe most men would just write me off when they find out how old I am.

I know a lot of girls say they're mature when they're really not, but if you knew me you'd agree that I'm mature beyond my years. I've never fit in with any of my peers. I've always hung out with older people because I feel like I fit in SO much better. I want a MAN. I appreciate the maturity level of an older man; I want someone "on my level", if you know what I mean.

So how do I attract an older guy in such a way that he looks at me as dating material instead of just some young girl he'd like to sleep with?

What got me really thinking about this was when my mom told me the other day she has a strong feeling I'm ultimately going to end up with someone 7 to 10 years older than I am. I think she's right, and I'd like some serious advice on how to go about it. There's someone I'm interested in who's about 7 and a half years older than me (29). Is there a way to get on his potential-girlfriend radar even though I'm young? (link)
Hey there,
I am 27 and I wouldn't mind seeing a girl of 21 and older. Once we are over 20, the gap becomes not so significant as it would be, say, for 15 and 20 year olds. The point is many women after 20 are getting mentally and spiritually mature enough for older men, so if you are really of a higher level a you claim, it wouldn't be a problem for that man.
The situation may vary depending on the type of man you are interested in, but to me, I'd love to see that the girl isn't a teenager anymore if you know what I mean. Show him that you are intelligent and wise and adult enough for him. And of course, don't forget that men are men regardless of the age :) http://www.askwiki.net/How-to-Attract-Men
It can be helpful, but I'm pretty sure you know how to attract a man. Good luck!




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