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hi becky
you know the saying...friends come before boyfriends? well my friend Sarah is now with my x who i still have feelings for everything w/ them is great and i love my friend so much. but now i feel like i got robbed out of a relationship that wasnt exactly finished... do u think just letting her have him because shes my best friend... is the right thing to do?

Alex

Alex,
Well, what your "best friend" did i dont think was a friend thing to do. I cant really tell you how to make up your mind about how you want to deal with that, but i do think you should talk to your friend about what she did, and let her know that you still had feelings for him. Let your friend know exactly how you feel about the whole situation. I think the best way to handle this is just to talk to her about everything that you are feeling, and maybe even talk to your x.

Hope I helped!
**XoOx**
**Becky**

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HEY BECK!
hehe i love my boyfriend.. everythings perfect i really dont need advice and i bet you know who this is lol but thats ok.. wow your advice column kicks ass if i ever have any problem im coming to you! yeah so like we broke up before.. alot of times and always got back together and the last time was in summer and he went out with like my best friend and i was SO UPSET like all depressed and shit.. and that lasted for a week but they liked eachother for like 3 months. but anyways now thats over and him and i are back together and like better than ever because were so much more mature and we really want it to work.. so like its gonna work.. ha i love HIM! by the way i have advice for you.. about guys.. i think *** is awesome.. and i think ***** is a btich.. so take MY advice on that. haha. i love you to death!
-***. haha

HEY ******!!!
hehe i know who u r and i love you to death too! Haha yeah i am defidently going to take your advice and yeah its great bc he was all i could think about today (12/23/04).. lol i am soo excited!!! k well g2g by ly xoxox
*XoOx*
**Becky**

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becky. i had a relationship with this boy for quite a long time. when things ended it was ugly. as time went on we started talking again and he tells me he will always like me. but he likes this other girl he just started talking to and i'm getting mixed signals. i don't know whether to give up or not. and i feel bad for the girl because he has already lied to her about something but i don't know how to tell her. i'm afarid if i tell her she will think that i am just trying to 'break'them up.and i'm confused what to do about me and him . helllp

Well to start off, if he is lieing to this girl about you, or something that you have done, then i think you should tell this girl everything and make sure that you tell her that it isnt that your trying to break them up its just being a friend. Then talk to this guy about what he is doing, and tell him that he should make up his mind and stop playing both of you. If your scared to tell her the truth face to face then right it down on paper, it might come out easier on paper. Just be sure to make it clear that your not trying to break them apart.... I know if i were this girl i would want someone to tell me the truth, and if this girl doesnt believe you then its on her, you tried and there is nothing more that you can do. If you need anything else feel free to write again or e~mail me.

Hope everything goes okay.

XoOx
Becky

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i want my ex - boyfriend back . what should i do? thank you x3

Wow, this is a hard one to answer. I know how you feel, and things might not always go the way you want them to. Talk to him about the reasons why you broke up, talk to him about your feelings toward eachother, and talk to him about if you both think you will be able to start over. I think that you should both talk your differences out, and the reason why everything happend the way it did. Sorry i cant help you much, ( next time give me a little bit more info.) but from what i said i hope it was enough.

XoOx
Becky
P.S. Let me know how everything went!

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Hey Becky,

I have a big problem!! i have a boyfriend who i've been with for awhile now.. and i love him to death! but i'm having second thoughts.. because i really like this other guy too... but i need to hang with this guy to see who i like more.. but i'm afriad i won't be able to control myself and something might happen.. i don't want to cheat on my boyfriend.. but i really want to see who i like more to make the right choice..What should i do.. hang with this guy and risk cheating on my boyfriend.. or just never find out if i made the right choice or not??

Signed,
Confused Lover*

Hey "confused lover" first off i think that you came to the right person, I have had many problems like this before, so i can relate to you. Okay, maybe you should try talking to your boyfriend about your situation, because obviously the reason that you like this other person is because your boyfriend now isnt treating you like you want to be treated, or not giving you the attion you want. Therefore your looking for someone else to fill your needs, and listen to you. Personaly i would talk to him. This other guy might seem great, but you might want to get to know him before you make a drastic decision. I hope that i have helped you and i hope everything goes alright.

XoOX
Becky.
p.s. let me know you decision!!

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