Member Since: September 1, 2012
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Last Update: September 1, 2012
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So I met this guy online and we've been talking almost constantly for a week or so and I think he's really awesome. He's a total sweetheart who has a great job and wants to do everything he can to help me. He's like everything I want but I'm not attracted to him at all. I was so disappointed when I webcammed with him and found out that he didn't really look like I thought he would.
I feel like such a b*tch because I REALLY like him but I can't get into him. I'm supposed to meet up with him (with a friend of course) next week and he wants to take me shopping and out to eat and he's even helping me get a job.
I feel so bad! I want to like him I really do!
What do I do? Please help!
I don't want to let him go. :(
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I would try to get past the appearance issues... Looks are not what makes a relationship and they most certainly do not last forever. I would meet him in person and see if there is actually chemistry there... If you really like him when you get to know him, his appearance not being the way you like, will not even cross your mind. If you still find yourself unattracted to him when you meet him though, do not force yourself to like him. You will not be happy and you will only be hurting him.
I wish you the best of luck!
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