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Okay well i'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 4 months now, and i love him with all my heart.. i really do. he's like an amazing boyfriend. he's so good to me. it's just like.. well he's like other guys and i don't understand. he tells me how much he cares about me & stuff but he doesnt show it all the time. we always fight about this & he says i only care about myself.. but i think that like if he cares, why can't he show it?! i mean he does show it.. but not as much as i want. i mean this is my first realllll boyfriend and i know i have very high expectations but idk what to do.. basically i've fallen too too hard for him. every day i cry on the phone with him over stupid things like if he ignores me a few times, or i think he's mad at me but is saying he isn't i'll think he's lying.. or if he forgets to call me especially. i'm so sick of getting hurt. i want to still be in love with him, but i need to stop caring so freaking much.. does anyone know how this is possible? like i tried giving us space & stuff but nothing works my weakness is i care too much... someone help me. (link)
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I understand were your coming from. First loves are really hard but, you have to understand that sometimes its hard for males regardless of their age to show their feelings. Try to be understanding of where he's coming from and try to be patient. As far as not caring so much this is a very hard lessen everyone eventually has to learn you can't force yourself to love someone less no matter how much you want too. I hope this helps you and if you need anything feel free to drop me an email.
sister katelyn
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