Member Since: March 19, 2006
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Last Update: August 28, 2007
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I had been a 4 year relationship.... he just said he "had enough" last week. It was constant fighting and those stupid little break ups every week...for some reason though, we always got back together and I really did love him a lot...he was definetely the bad boy type, and I was the "smart girly" type I guess you could say...he and I both had our shares of infidelity, though I made my mistakes early on, and he carried them out until January of this year...he's been physical at times and apparently I've been a bitch at times...my grandmother is very ill right now and he's basically abandoned me....why can't I get over him and have the urge to call so bad...how can I overcome this? (link)
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This sounds so familiar to me, i've actually almost been in the same situation. I always had the urge to call him, but I knew that would show him i actually did care when I wanted him to not think that, and I didn't want to seem weak about it. I had my best friend, remind me everyday not to call him because then i'd just be stupid. Hearing it everyday made me think and sooner or later I over came it. Find someone else to talk to, just a friend and think of all the hurt hes caused and how you don't want to go back to that. He'll just do it over again, it always happens.
Hope I helped.
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