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18/f
Okay, i've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now and i've found out that i'm pregnant. I know i want to keep the baby, i couldn't go through with an abortion. But in September he's going away to university. I know how much he wants to go and i don't want to spoil it for him or make him feel like he has to stay. Do i tell him now? Or do i wait until he's at university and then tell him? (He's going to be living quite far away when he goes, like four to five hours drive away if that helps)
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You've answered your own question:
"I've found out that I'm pregnant. I know I want to keep the baby. I couldn't go through with an abortion. But in September you're going away to school, and I know how much you want to go. I don't want to spoil that for you or make you feel like you have to stay."
Then it will be your turn to listen to what he has to say in response. Then an honest discussion of both of your feelings will follow...
Honoring the one-year commitment the two of you have had so far should warrant this kind of honesty and intimacy.
Best Wishes!
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