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hi, im new at this...
well...ive been cryingg every nightt to bed abd now during the day...
i used 2 cut and i did it for two years and i stopped b/c my parents found out..well ive been crying everyynight to bed and i was curling my hair the other day and i burned myself by accident and when i did i just for some reason burned myself again on purpose and ever since ive been secrectly cutting/burning myself i just hate myself now ..i just dont know what 2 like do or feel i jjust dont wanna be here anymore... (link)
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the reason you are doing this is because you feel a release with the pain,you are trying to distract yourself from emotional pain with physical pain.When you cut yourself you are releasing endorphins in your body and they make you feel better, but there are other ways.Maybe you feel like you don't have control over anything except hurting yourself.If you have no one to talk to that you can trust,you should start get a notebook and write down everything you wish you could talk about,and everything that causes you pain and get it all out,when u are ready take the pages along with a fire proof bowl to a peaceful place in nature,burn the pages in the bowl and blow all your troubles into the wind.get smart, the only thing they cant take away is what you know.
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alright.. well i have a major problem here.. theres this guy chris ( my ex from a year ago.. hes 20 im 16) well weve gone through some bad times but i always end up forgiving him and going back to him.. hes such a sweet heart and weve been hanging out alot lately and he text me the other night and asked if i thought we could ever try being together again.. but im not sure if i want to ...
then theres nick hes 15 (which age doesnt bother me) we met in summer skool and well he likes me and hes very funny and sweet and he is very good at making me smile.. we always are hugging and flirting in class and everyone tells me he likes me and i like him too!!..and i just feel liek theres something there.
then theres bronson.. hes 17 .. weve been friends for 3 years..and the past couple of weeks weve been talking alot.. texting cute lil messages.. and we were at mikes saturday night and we were cuddling on the couch and we both fell asleep and then we woke up and he was just sayin the cutest things.. then he imed me last night and was liek i didnt want to leave mikes and ur the greatest person to cuddle with and the cutest things ever.. and hes seriously the greatest guy ever..
so my problem is.. what do i do i mean id feel so bad if i chose someone.. so should i wait and see if one of them makes the move first to go to the next level or what!!!and i feel something with all 3 guys..
ahh help please
kristin
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I think you answered you're own question you wrote about bronson saying, "hes seriously the greatest guy ever", I dont know if you realized that you wrote that but maybe subconsiously you answered you're own decision. What ever choice you make will come with good and bad consequences so when you choose your man dont ever have doubts about your decision if it doesnt work out. if its meant to be somehow it will work itself out.
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my bf just broke up wiht me, and i am throwing up cuz of it, and i also can't breath wen im crying. what can i do to help? (link)
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The only thing that will make it better is time alot of people will try to make you feel better but nothing they say can really help you especially if you're so miserable that you are vomiting. just think of it as an experience that will make you wiser in your future relationships.
Time devours everything.
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I already asked this but idk i need more answers ! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!
Ok so Im a freshman and theres a new kid whos a sophmore, Macon, And he rides my bus and is in two of my classes on the other side of the room in one. Everyone thinks hes annoying becasue he asks a lot of stupid questions (beiing sarcastic) in class but i think its kinda funny. Hes kinda short but really cute. And idk if he even notices me besides when i get on the bus.. but i thought i saw him looking at me in spainish. I dont think i can ever EVER work up the nerve to talk to him. Im trying to look interested like today in class he said something and everyone laughed and i was laughing and i looked at him and smiled.. i think he saw. Hes also in my lunch on day 1 (theres 6 diff days) But .. I dunno everyone thinks hes stupid and i dont and i like him a lot but i dont think ill ever be able to talk to him unless he says something first ! AHHH ! WHAT TO DO WHAT TO DO !? (link)
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It seems that you are afraid to talk to him and that maybe you need an ice breaker. You have to stand out among the other girls and make him come to you. I don't know if you can draw but if you can maybe you should try drawing him a picture, he will be flattered and maybe he will start talking to you.
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