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Hello, I am 23 years old and I have a bachelor's degree in sociology and psychology. A few weeks ago, I had applied to three graduate schools for clinical mental health. I had gotten into two of them, I told the one that I would go to the other since it was financially best for me and when I went to accept the other's acceptance, I just couldn't do it. I started to panic reading about it and it's had me in such a frazzled state for days, keeping on thinking about it.

So, I'm thinking that this isn't my passion. I wanted to be a therapist but one would think once I finally got in and could get the ball rolling, I would be super excited but I've been so overwhelmed and scared and just so darn anxious that I don't think this is a good fit for me and aside from what I've already said, I'll give a few more reasons as to why I believe that to be true:
- I though that I would get in and get out in three years, that is what I had interpreted the professor saying during my interview but upon further reading, I had found out that I would be finishing my credits in three years, then I would be going on to start me practicum, then after that I would continue on to start my internship which would be another THREE years (plus more if I decide to work part time while doing it or I could be completely not working and complete the 3600 hours in three years)!! All of that, so far, is a minimum of 6 years, that does not include how many years it could take for me to pass the three part MPAC test
-the next thing I was thinking about is moving. My boyfriend and I had discussed that after we get married and before we have kids, we would like to live in another state for a little but say that I graduate in 7 years, I would need two years of working on my own license as experience before I apply to live in another state so that puts me at moving out of the state by the time I am maybe 32 years old, which not to mention, he discussed wanting to have children before we both reach 30, which I had no problem with since I thought I would be done with school by the time I am 28.
-the other thing that makes me nervous is that I graduate and get licensed, I get a job as a therapist and hate it, there aren't many other jobs that I could work with that type of master's degree so that is really kind of holding me back too.

Anyway, I just wanted to see if this seems logical or anything to anyone else here. I also wanted to get some input on what other type of jobs there are that I could look into. I think I'm going to defer my acceptance from this school so I can research a little more. I work as a paraprofessional with special needs children now and I love helping people, which is why I really thought therapy would be a good fit. I also am just the kind of person that likes to keep options open, which is why I didn't like the idea of not having many other jobs I could fall back on if I didn't like being a therapist or being stuck in one state because of being licensed. I want to get a good job that will help support me and my future family (and pay off all that student debt, ya know) but money isn't all that I'm about. I have looked into what sociologists and psychologists do, how much money masters degree social workers make and more jobs along that line. So, I'm just looking for advice on maybe a new masters degree to look into and what future jobs I could also look into with a new masters degree that kind of fit what I've described.

Thanks for any help! (link)
Well, you can try to read additional literature on how to improve your CV like http://www.businesslegions.com/blog/2018/02/12/tips-write-good-cv-dream-job/. That might actually help to find a better and more interesting job. So good luck to you. But I'm sure you're doing everything right.




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