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Hello.

I'm a male, atheist, generally level-headed and for the most part, open-minded. I'm offering advice to anyone, on any matter because I feel my input would be more likely to be factored without prejudice. (As opposed to someone who is a religous zealot). I'm also looking to give out advice because I like psychology and learning how people think.

I currently am living in Arkansas, although I was born & raised in California, and still consider myself a Californian. (Arkansas is trash) My personal interests are: music, psychology, forensics, photography, firearms, computer hardware, computer gaming & muscle cars.

So ask on, I'm sure I can answer.

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so last month my bf fingered me and i gave him a handjob..he cummed and i wasnt sure if he had some on his fingers then fingered me...anyways i got my period the LAST day of february and i was totally relieved. well i havent got my period for this month...but i havent done ANYTHING what so ever this month...so yea i dont know whats up? could i be pregnant?

I wouldn't listen to much of the advice listed here. Sperm can live outside of the body in normal temps for up to 30minutes. The only real way for sperm to be eliminated entirely is washing your hands, or when the sperm is completely dried out. (hard to tell sometimes) Sperm does NOT die immediately upon touching open air. That is a myth. There are millions of sperm in a single drop of semen, it only takes one to impregnate. However since you did have your peroid, you said, and did nothing thereafter, pregnancy chances are slim unless your "peroid" was merely spotting after impregnation. Sexual advice online isn't necessarily a good thing, especialy on the matter of pregnancy. You can only be reassured, we cannot personally tell you what is going to happen, only a doctor can do that. Get a pregnancy test if you want to be sure, you can often get them free at clinics, and your parents don't need to know. This also might be the time to consider getting on a form of birth control. Most clinics can offer it low of price or cheap...

This website can help you out:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/

Good luck, best wishes.

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im 13 and im male. can anyone tell me some makingout tips. highly rated.

I never understood the closing eyes thing, I've always felt much more impassioned gazing into my lover's eyes as we kiss. (as does my girlfriend)

Either way, like said, take your time. Pack mints or candy or something, generally it's hard to always keep your breath fresh... I always carry something! The thing I noticed most when I started learning how to "make out" that girls disliked was too much roughness. So I guess the best advice I can give guy to guy is... don't go into it too fast. You have more strength than you may think you have...

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Hey, i have had this girl as my girlfriend for a month and 3 1/2 weeks. But, we have not kissed yet, the main reason is, because we both have braces, i am affraid of all the roumours of linked braces that are going around. I get my braces off in June or July, and i am having her over tonight with a few friends for a movie night, should i got ahead and kiss her, or should i wait til i get my braces off and play it safe?

My girlfriend has had braces for awhile now, though I've never had braces, I've never had problems getting myself stuck. (And we've been quite fervid). I don't really think you'd be smashing teeth together, so there should be no reason to worry about such.

Take it slow and take your time if you haven't had much experience...

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