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emilytomberlin@cox.netGender:
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OklahomaOccupation:
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September 10, 2006Answers:
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Hey there! I'm Emily. If you need advice on anything, ask it here, email me, or IM me on AIM! I answer ANY kind of questions! I'll try my best to answer whatever you need. I'm also here if you just need a friend to talk to. Don't hesitate to contact me, thats why I'm here. I'll be on AIM quite often, and I check my email at least 2-3 times a day. Remember, I'm always here for everyone. I can't wait to answer your questions!
-Emily
advice
how can i become more outgoing? like i was at my cousins bonfire with all her friends and they wanted people to do like the lawn mower and the sprinkler and be stupid! but nobody wanted to and in my head i was like just do it just do it and then i was like noo i will look stupid! because there were a couple guys there that i thought were hott =) and i wish i wouldnt care what people thought of me! its always like..if i say something i think someone will think im stupid or something! even if someone asks me to go to a party with them and i dont really know anyone i will be all freaked out and be like oh my god this is going to be weird im scared! because im not going to know anyone and then who am i gonna talk to...everyones gonna look at me and wonder who i am! thats just how i am..or if im like at a football game with everyone and im trying to find a seat with my friend i feel like everyone is staring at me and i like the attention from guys..but then its like i dont really like the attention?! its weird. i just think i would make more friends and i would like for myself to be more outgoing and not care what people think. its so hard for me to change though. and in school in class i never talk..answer questions, participate because im scared to like say an answer or read something off! and i HATE speaking in front of anyone..ahh anyone know how to get over this!?
by the way im 16/f.
THANKS
Hey! Don't worry about what others think. I've got the same problme as you do. But you just can't live your life to others standards. Sometimes you've gotta be a little outgoing. Just try it step by step. If you don't feel comfortable, just sit it out and try again later.
-Emily