Member Since: February 28, 2007
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13/f
(the first part is background that i think could relate. the second is my actual problem) sorry for the length...
PART 1
ok well this girl elizabeth i had been friends with her since like 2nd grade im in 8th now with fights and temporary splits here and there....but one time on this one chat site she called me a B**** for no reason and then just left and kept doing it if i asked for an explanation. the next day at school during lunch she said she didn't eman it and WAS JUST JOKEING. i mean COME ON. i didnt forgive her because i don't take stuff liek that as a joke, so after a day or so she comes to my house in tears with a card tat says SORRY and a small present. i forgave her.....grudgeingly. ok well then we got along ok but then...
PART TWO
ok well i was at another friends house and i was really mad for some reason or another and i called elizabeth fat. she isn't really fat just a little....well porportioned. so this oher friend told her later ( ididn't mean for her to) and elizabeth got all mad. WELL she got all mad and she understands that i didn't mean it.....i relaly truely didn't....and now she doesn't want to be friends anymore and won't forgive me which i don't think is fair because she really hurt my feelings with the part 1 thing....but i didn't have to forgive her, but i did. and there were other things she did that i didn't want to forgive her for doing.
what should i do? she has made it very clear via myspcae that she doesn't want to be friends. yes she told me.. i don't think its fair. do you think it is?
sorry for the length.....
thanks in advance! (link)
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I don't think what either of you said was very nice at all, but I do think she's being hypocritical by reacting like that. I can understand her taking the 'fat' comment to heart if she truly was joking before. If she is a little overweight, I can definitely see how calling her fat would shake her confidence and really upset her; a comment about someone's appearance (with something they are perhaps a little insecure about) will hurt a lot more than what she expects calling you a bitch did to you.
Have you explained to her that you did not take what she said before as a joke and that she seriously did hurt you? If you haven't, do, and try and work it out from there.
If you have, and she's still like that then she needs to get off her high-horse, if I'm honest. Let it cool down a bit, and then approach her again.
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