Member Since: April 21, 2012
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Last Update: April 23, 2012
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So, my friend of nineteen was impregnated, maybe about four months ago I've heard. She didn't tell me because she knows I'm pretty much against the teen pregnancy thing, but I did find out from the rest of our friends.
I was pretty ticked, especially since the baby's father cheated and went to live with his new girlfriend, leaving my friend behind. Here's the issue:
My friend is very clingy. She clung onto her boyfriend for at least a year and a half, talking about marriage and everything. Well, she found out he was cheating on her for about three months and I know for a fact that he's the father because my friend hasn't had sex with anyone else; she was seriously obssessed and painfully loyal to this guy. Well, before she found out, she was excited about the baby coming. She was cooing about it and everything- that is, until she found out he was cheating. Now she's hoping for a miscarriage and talking about how she hopes it dies. I was horrified. I've always known she was a bit selfish, but this is unbelievable because she flat out told a friend of mine in a note that I was given: "I don't want the damn thing because it hogs all the attention from me".
I don't know what to do because she has no job, she won't be graduating with us this year, she smokes at least a pack a day, she's already slobbering all over this other guy who we don't even know, and she's acting like it's all normal. Should I even do anything since this is our last year? Should I leave her to it? I mean, her parents know, but she won't take any help from them. In fact, she shrieked at her mother that if she mentioned the baby one more time, she'd take a knife to her stomach and I seriously think she needs help- she just won't accept any. (link)
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You should tell your friend that she's killing her child. The baby didn't do anything to her and it's both the fathers and her own fault. At least tell her to put the baby in adoption because if she harms that baby it's going to stay with her the rest of her life and she's going to regret it. I know you can't make her but at least you can say you tried
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