My name is Michael Morancie. I am a United States Marine. I pride myself in bettering myself through the betterment of others. I try to give advise based on my years of experience and not on what you would rather hear. Honest sound advise may hurt more than dishonest advise.
Most of my experienced advise is in business, finances, school, entrepreneurship, and relationships. However, I may be able to help with a whole lot more.
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Good morning or good afternoon guys! I need help. I'm f23 and my bf is 24. We have been going out for quite a whole now. I love him but my insecurities are kicking up. There's this girl who likes him and they talk quite a lot. They have better conversations than me and him do and they talk for hours o the phone. I know all that cuz I've looked at his phone. He tells me he doesn't like her but somehow I feel like I'll loose him soon. Now this girl is was smarter and thicker than me and trust me that's a fact. I feel like I need to get out of the relationship so I can work on my insecurities. I've talked to him about it but he just says she's a friend but how is she just a friend when they have better conversations and talk for ours than me and him do. I need advice on what to do. Thanks in advance (link)
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Hello. Thanks for your question. Hve you ever thought about if you do break up with him, how do you plan on working on your insecurities? The only way to work on those things is by working through them. You are still young and though you think you are in love you should use this relationship to work on those insecurities. You can also try breaking up the repetitiveness in your relationship and do something spontanious. You should quit thinking about whether you will lose him soon and start thinking about what you both can do to keep the fun and happiness going in your relationship. Focusing on the negative aspect will only damage your relationship. You have to trust him. At the same time trust your instincts. You must trust each other. If you choose not to trust him then you will be writing the ending the ending to all other relationships.
Let's say he was cheating on you. And you trusted him. Please do not let that stop you from trusting future partners.
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