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Hi! I'm Amanda. I'm in 11th grade. I made the advice column bc all my friends ask me and say I'm good..so why not everyone else! Ask me anything!...Anything at all. And if I dont have a good answer, sorry! But I'll try my best. Muahz! Thanx Guys!
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Do u kno Chad Beahm..well ya!...thats tha boy i like and i cant stop thinking about him..but now that i have told ppl that i like him its gettin hard to talk to him...and out in public when i even come near him his friends make fun of him and that makes him not wanna talk to me!...i dunno what to do!....i need help bad!...i dont wanna lose him!!...i realli care for him!!
help please:(!
Yeah, I kno Chad. And I kno his friends..and let me say 1 word, Childish! Its not their fault..their guys! (sorry guys!, ya kno I luv ya!) But anyway. Its gonna happen..guys pick on guys..but really its because their jealous!! They're just mad because Someone doesnt like them. But! You don't want to keep beatin urself up about it. Your just gettin into highschool. U need to be straight up with him and ask what his feelings are. If they arent the same as yours, still be friends..trust me! There are more fish in the sea! Good luck!
I have this problem in the bed, dont get me wrong the sex with my partner is great. But everytime we have intercourse, im always having different thoughts running through the back of my mind. My thoughts range of all my X bf's, It always seems im comparing them to him!(performance wise)Please Help!
Well..give him ideas and make it better! If it gets better then u wont want to think about them..but if it gets worse..get a new 1!
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i like this kid and i dont have the guts to talk to him or tell any1. amyways i would hate for my family to find out if i did go out with him. the would lagh at me and make fun of me. what should i do.
Well..If you were to go out with him, and they laugh at you, so what? Its your life and your decision. I'm sure after awhile they'll get over it. If you like him enough..then go for it! Don't be ashamed. The worst thing that could happen is him sayin no.
A boy i like and cant stop thinkin about...I talk to him all tha time on tha internet!...but out in public we act like we dont kno each other and i wanna become good friends wit him so maybe we can b more!!...What should i do??
This sounds alot like my other question..so dont be surprised if the answer sounds similar, too! First you decide..good friends/ or more? And When you do that here are the answers:
Good friends- Talk alot. Find out more and more about him. If he tells you alot, he probably is starting to trust you. Thats a rock solid foundation for a good friendship!
More- Get to kno him better and hopefully he'll fall for you, too! I kno, I kno. It doesnt sound like good advice, but you'd be surprised how fast people fall for each other! And if he doesnt fall for you..act like you dont like him like that..(it always works!)
...Good Luck! & If it doesnt work, tell me what happend and ask some more!
theres a guy who i sreally hot and he hardly nos me i no him becuz i talkj to him a lot and i dont nkow how to egt him to notice me
this is my question
How can i get him to nbe my best friend and no eachother well
please help thanks :-)
Well..keep talkin! & To tell you the truth, you don't want him to be your best friend..Because if you like this boy then it will be hard to be more than friends if your already BEST friends. As far as gettin to kno u better..it takes time. And if you have a problem with him not lookin/actin like he knos u..tell him! But if your too shy, just wave and say hey. You never kno! He may be just as shy! Good Luck! Thanx..
Well..my boyfriend and I have been together for awhile now..and hes trying to pressure me into having sex. What do I do..I don't want him to break up with me!!
--Confused
Well, if your boyfriend likes/loves you. He will wait until your ready. I kno its hard..but tell him! Or, (and this helps) Use that situation as an example in a fake problem your friend had. And tell him, "Omg I cant believe hes pressuring her! Thats awful!..I'm so glad u dont do that to me!!" ...and it will work! and if not..get @ me and I'll try to help more! Thanx!
my friend likes the same guy i do and ive kinda known/liked him for ever and she knew it the whole time whut should i do?
Well...Let me start off with, that sucks! What I would do is remind her that you liked him! There is no reason for you to feel bad at all! She's defiently in the wrong. And tell her she is supposed to be your friend..and friends don't do that! ...If that dosent work, Let me kno what went on and I'll help more! Thanx!