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Age: 25
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how do i become a stripper (link)
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Well, once you've made up your mind that this is the path you want to follow, it isn't so easy to just do. For you it may be but there is sometimes a confidence that has to be gained first.
I would buy an outfit or two...think easy to take off...and a pair of stripper shoes and practice dancing and walking first. Make sure you look good, get your hair done, nails,go tanning, etc. Also, try to pick out your style of music. Then research the clubs in your area. In New Jersey, there are bikini bars, topless bars, and full nude places. You have to decide which type of place you would be most comfortable with.
After you've done that you just call the club and see how to audition. Remember that this is a job that requires confidence since you will be on stage and people are extremely judgemental. Be prepared to deal with a lot of negativity.
Make sure you seriously want to get into this line work. This could really effect the rest of your life.
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I'm 24 years old and my sister is 21. We both work for the same company. The company deals with developmentally disabled adults. She works in the actual office, and I work in the residential homes, taking care of our clients overnight. About 2 weeks ago I went over to her house and she told me something and made me swear once I heard it, that I wouldn't tell anyone because it could cost her her job. She went on to tell me that she stole pills from work. I instantly got mad. She's not this type of person AT ALL! She said she wouldn't of done it if she had known she could only get $1/pill. She told me this three weeks ago and it's been bugging me ever since. In no way do I want her to be unemployed but at the same time what she did was completely wrong. Her reasoning for doing it are ridiculous as well, she says that "it was bad, but not that big of a deal because the pills were going to be destroyed and thrown out." I'm the only one that knows, so if I say anything, obviously it will come back to me. I just don't know what to do! (link)
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Sounds like you really need to discuss this with her. Explain to her how you feel about what she has done and the position she has put you into. It isn't fair. Evaluate her response. I think if it was a one time deal you should probably let it slide to keep your relationship with your sister intact. However, if you don't trust her when she tells you that you have to protect yourself and your job. You may also want to explore with her why she is in need of extra money and help her come up with better ways to obtain it. Also, do some digging and make sure your sister isn't suffering from a drug addiction. The behavior you're explaining would make me a little worried.
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