Gender: Male Location: Nashville Occupation: Collector of life experience Age: 18 AIM: xasxforlifex Member Since: March 8, 2011 Answers: 1 Last Update: April 6, 2011 Visitors: 305
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I've known this boy for many years, we went to school together and we tried dating but it never really worked out. Mainly because i didn't know what i wanted back then, but we've always kept in touch. He has a girlfriend, but he always asks to hang out and i know he's into me still because every time we hang out he shows his interest. I never make a move because i wouldn't do that to his girlfriend, but i wonder why he would put himself in that predicament when he knows his girlfriend would get mad. I mean, why would he just not break up with her and try to make it work with me? I guess what i'm trying to ask is should i just tell him we can't hang out or should i make a move and see what happens? Maybe he will break up with his girlfriend and we can try again. what do you guys think? Thanks (link)
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I think before you do anything as drastic as telling him you can't hang out anymore or you make a move on him you should stop and really think about it.
If he has been making most (If not all) of the moves and you haven't shown any interest (Maybe a little to none) then maybe he just doesn't know you like him, try this.
Next you two hang out just either ask him
A.)"Do you like me?" Then theres always the good follow up to that question if he doesn't answer right away "Because if you don't, i don't think you should be flirting with me"
Or just tell him that you like him but nothing could happen between the both of you because you wouldn't want to hurt his girlfriend.
Doing either one of those takes the pressure off of you and lets him think about if he wants you or his girlfriend.
I hope this helped (: M~Ŧ
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