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Member Since: July 30, 2013
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I recently discovered that my wife isn’t in love with me anymore. She hasn’t left me, but it’s come pretty close. I know that after we had our child, that the spark hasn’t been there. Our focus has become our child and our careers. I also know that I have made some mistakes in our marriage. But I do believe that I am a good man, and a good husband. She doesn’t have high hopes that we can ever get back what we used to have, but I do believe we can get through this. I love my wife more than words can describe and I just want to win her heart back. Has anyone gone through this and succeeded? Can anyone give me advice on how to make her fall back in love with me? (link)
I've talked to so many men just like you and all I can say is that if she hasn't left yet, then it's not too late. Careers and children do place an enormous amount of demand on your attention and your time, but it doesn't mean that your marriage has to fall apart.

Let me ask you a couple of things:
1. Are you indecisive in your relationship?
2. How often do you initiate some fun together?
3. Do you feel that you have your wife's respect?

When men lose their wive's respect, it's often because somewhere along the way they stopped being leaders in their marriage. It's all about attraction and women are attracted to men who are gentle by also take initiative.




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