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Hey guys I give good advice and im here if you have a question I will do my best to answer it it could be anything silly or whatever it doesnt matter really....just ask me questions wooohooo

I am 22 years old I live on longisland ny I love to chill with friends,sing,dance,cuddle,lick,bite, i love jelly bracelets hoodies hot topic, dimples,slurpees,anything and everything cherries, im kinda ditzy sumtimes but i can be serious if need be, I love all of my friends they mean the world to me and Id do anything for them. I love poprocks and snackpacks I AM A SNACKPACKWHORE!!!!
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
you just need to be str8 up with him because he might be under the impression that you guys will do it.....i just feel that do it when your ready not just because he wants to it has to be up to you and if you feel right baout doing it...and if your not ready then dont do it


ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help? (link)
you really should definitly let her know that you care for her and her health and that if she goes for help she can get better, and let her know youll be there with her if she needs that, she wont wanna do it alone shell probably deny it for a while eventually she will give in because shes gonna get really sick if she doesnt get help and being anorexic is a serious disease and I hope that she gets the help and gets better, let her know that she is putting herself in danger by doing this she isnt only affecting you and others but shes fdefinitly affecting herself


Ok well I have this friend whom have been friends with for about 7 years and now all of a sudden shes got a boyfriend and I dont....so lately shes been blowing me off and hanging out with him more and his friends I feel that im losing my best friend what should i do?? i dont wanna seem dumb but i need to know please help me (i am f and im 13) (link)
Ok well first of all I think that you really need to either call her or go to her house and talkt o her in person, (that would be so much better) and just let her know that its hurting you that she doesnt spend any time with you, and maybey you guys can work things out such as maybey her boyfriend can find a guy for you this way you can always hangout and you both will have a boyfriend and you wont feel so left out :-) i really hope that i have helped a lil i was in your situation when i was your age it was horrible up until Her b/f found me a b/f and it was great after that :-)




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