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My boyfriend and I went on a date yesterday, and when we got home we started making out. After that he sat me on his lap and I felt something poking my butt, so im pretty sure I gave him a boner. I'm wondering how you would tell if you gave a guy a boner and what you should do if u did and dont want to go any further, but i dont just wanna ignor it. My boyfriend and I are really close, if that changes anything. (link)
Well, you have a few options, but I only think one is truly viable. You could be less attractive to him so he doesn't get a boner in the first place, but that just sounds stupid, right? You could also confront him about it and tell him you don't want to go further, so he'll have to learn to control it or be alright with not using his bone stick. The option I think would work best for you would kind of delve into 'going further', but barely. You could indulge him in some dry humping, but if he tries to go further, you can just say you're not ready for that. Good luck on your 'boner problem'.




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