Hey everyone. A lot of people come to me for advice a lot. So I thought I'd try this out. I don't judge a lot of people by specific problems they have. Feel free to tell me anything. I promise to try and give my best advice and not tell anyone of the problem. ASK AWAY! lol
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Well I'm 13 and a female. My friend told me that my bestfriend has said bad things about me behind my back. We've been best friends for 4 years. My best friend and I had this huge fight about talking behind each other behind our backs. Her cousin told me that she didn't say anything about me behind my back and said, "why wouldn't you believe your best friend". Well it's true but my friend told me this real bad family secret of hers so I thought if she can trust me this I'll trust her about the best friend thing. Then I tried sorting out things with my best friend but I don't think she really doesn't want too. But the thing is I don't know if I want to either now. I don't know what to do? So what am I suppose to do? Should I ask my friend if she was telling the truth or ask my best friend if she was telling the truth? I seriously don't know what to do! (link)
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Dear Writer .. I think that you should trust your best friend. You guys have been through everything together for the last 4 years. Why would you let something like this ruin your friendship. Your in middle school, and someone always tells someone something that tells another person that tells another person. While in the process things get changed around. I'm not saying your other friend was lying, I'm saying that maybe someone told her false information. My advice for your best friend is to just give her some time alone. Giving her some alone will make her miss you, and will remind her of what you guys had and how much you enjoyed eatchothers company.
Sincerely, LnP07
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Ok- I usually am the one giving out advice... but I am stumped on my own problem. Well here is what happened:
I used to have a best friend named Justine. We hit it off great from the start. After the first month we'd known eachother, we spent the night at each other's houses almost every weekend. We had only known eachother for a year when the inevitable happened- but we'd shared so much together. I had told her all of my deep dark secrets, and she had told me some of her own.
Well- this summer, I had been at my cousin Ashley's house- and we had been chatting with boys on AIM. I told Justine about it when I saw her- and for some reason, she FLIPPED. She wouldn't talk to me, and she ignored all my e-mails to her.
This year, I went back to middle school, and Justine had changed completely over the summer. She had all these cheerleader friends, and she was acting like she was better than everyone else. She even sits in front of me in my English class.
This is where the problem comes in. I don't want to be Justine's friend anymore- she is such a brat- but I do want her to act civil towards me (in English she is always sighing, like she hated being around me- and she tells people, when I can hear- that she hates me). What can I do to make her stop acting so immature??? (link)
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Honestly writer.. Sometimes people can't stop others from acting so immature.I know the right thing to say here is to be the better person and on't let it bother you. But I know that it REALLY HARD! Why don't you try seeing her out of school when shes with noone and ask her whny shes doing all this stuff to you. That way if shes around noone maybe she'll be less mean cause she doesnt have to show off in front of friends. You should do that.. or be the better person and just ignore it (even thoe i may even fin that HARD! lol) Good luck.
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