Member Since: July 26, 2009
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Last Update: July 26, 2009
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okay so i'm 19 and i will admit i'm a pretty horny 19 year old VIRGIN. the farthest i've been is making out and the last time i did it was like three years ago. it's not that i dont want to do sexual things with guys, its that i'm nervous. who isnt nervous their first time getting fingered, giving a hand job, getting felt up, etc. i think it's because i feel like i'm not comfortable with my body but i've realized that guys like boobs. its not abnormal, duh. girls are usuallly self- conscious about their body, right? i honestly wouldnt do somethinng with a guy if i didnt want to, but i WANT TO its just the point of actually getting there. yeah i know, if its a guy you love you shouldnt feel nervous but you dont know me! no matter how comfortable i am with someone, it still feels awkward. like okay your feeling me up as i sit here, cool? i overanalyze everything. how can i overcome this? i know that if i just do something once, i'll overcome this fear, but until then how can i get over it? (link)
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I say it's best to just get it over with. Once you've pushed the boundaries of your comfort zone then things will get much easier and your awkwardness will go away.
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