Member Since: June 22, 2009
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Last Update: June 22, 2009
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Recently, I became good friends with this girl. She's fun and really awesome to hang out with and usually it's hard for me to get along with girls (all the drama, etc). The big problem is, I met her boyfriend who she's been with for many years, and he's perfect. He's all the qualities I want in a guy and he knocks me off my feet. I never fall easily for guys, so when I do, it's serious. He'll flirt with me constantly and one time while we were alone he kind of hinted that he was tired of the relationship. I don't know what to do and how to act around him now. If my new friend found out, it'd be a disaster since we have a whole group of mutual friends now and she'd definitely kill me! What do I do? I'm infatuated with him, but she's been really nice to me. (19/F) (link)
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Well your situation is a tough one. I've been in this position before only with my best friend. I think you have to decide wether your relationship with your new friend is more important then your new infatuation with her boyfriend. Even though it isn't such a good idea to even have a relationship with this boy yet since they are together. I think you should tell the guy if hes tired of his relationship he should tell her, or you should tell your friend and see what she thinks about her boyfriend confiding in you. Yet, you can be become close to her boyfriend and tell him that you wanna be good friends, just to see where his relationship with your new friend goes. Because we all know that guys just say things sometimes but they never will take action most of the time. Don't ruin a friendship over a guy, unless you really know he wants you too and that your both willing to risk it.
I hope I helped,
Jenna
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