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okay, jenna.. i'm stuck :O( i like this guy "a", and we have been talkn n shyt.. and lk this past weekend i was in alief with my friend and there was this guy "r" nd i use to like him ALOTT, and we started talkn again and everything was goin all fine, and i ended up havn sex with him.. and i dunno wuts gunna happen with us, and today at school, i sat with "a" at lunch, and i couldnt look at him the same, i feel soo bad i dunno wut to do.. and if "r" wants a relationship, imma be stuck bc i still like "a".. HELPPPPPPP MEEEE
-wun of ur frendszzz

... well geez... um ok.. first and formost if you are one of my friends then you are my age and you shouldnt be just "having sex" with guys... even if yall went you... sex is bad and it causes drama as you can tell... now whoever "a" is then you need to tell him what happend w/ "r" he has a right to know... i dotn think you should have had sex w/ "R" in the first place though b/c that was making you look easy.. you dont really talk to him n e more and yall arent going out.. he is most likely just using you b/c htats how most guys are... just watch wat you do w/ guys and make sure you tell "a" b/c it is super important that he knows....

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hey jenna its lizzie! i really need your advice on this one. okay 3 weeks ago i fucked with this guy and he was pretty good, he had condoms and a his own sex rule book to guide us through it the whole way..i felt so safe the whole time. also i have known him for a while. then on new years eve/new years i fucked with this other guy. i dont know him really good, hes really hott, and he was real good..he knew all the right moves! but he also didnt use a condom so i have to see if i miss my period or not see if im pregnant. but there was something about new years..it just felt soo good doing it fucking with him and we did it for a looong time. from like 11pm to 1:30 am! we missed the ball drop though...well not really if ya kno what im talkin about! hahah but yeah i need helt to kno weather i go with the 3 week ago guy who i've know pretty good and is really safe and ok at it or the new years guy who i dont really kno and had all the rite moves and was really really really good...and i mean REALLY!
..also im really concerned about my weight! when i was fucking w. them both of them said " hey i think you need to be on the bottom and i need to be on the top because your smashing my dick!" i always thought i was a skinny coked out whore. i thought i was just ask skinny as mary-kate olsen, the anerxic one. am i as skinny as her? or am i fat? please tell me the truth! i need to know!
--LIZZIE--

i have no idea what to say to that...

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okay one...i know who wrote the very first question and if you have a problem with me come to me, dnt tell the whole f...ing world whats going on.two... this guy is not worth a friendship...he just makes our friendship harder. its pretty gay that you dnt come and confront me like jenna said to with her so called "advice". and the next question that was on the page of questions was from the same person...yea hunn he did say all that stuff to me and even jenna said that he does tell us the same exact thing.....its pretty messed up and you need to realize it...the advice that jenna said to you sweetie was the advice that she gave me over the phone. alls hes doin is playin you like he played me n made me cry. well its gonna happen to you and its gonna be your fault and im not gonna help you through it because i know that i warned you and it happened to me. JENNA: hmmmm...what to say what to sy...what do you do wen your ex best friend starts to accuse you for sumthin you didnt do? hmmm....any ideas yet? well im always tired of this person starting shiit with me thats stupid and doesnt even matter.....ill give you a clue who im talkin about in my question...starts with a J ...hmmmm....maybe its JENNA! yea it is...its you jenna im tired of your shiit...get over the fact that you think your always right cuzz your not! and i hope you feel really stupid wen you realize that it wasnt me!

well... lizzie you give great advice.. i think you need a column... go to advicenators.com and register... um i dont evven know what to say.. and the whole thing bout telling the world instead of coming to me.. well you did the same thing telling every1 me and you were in a fight and also did the same thing when you put it in your xanga.... well i guess youre right lizzie.. like always... sry i guess you can say... um.. i dont knwo what to say this time... sry all the arrows point to you ... um... thats it.. my advice here is to grow up and learn to shut your mouth.. .then maybe people wouldnt acuse you for secrets getting around... um... ur past makes people think you would tell... HOLLER!! or wait lemme say it in your words I'LL HIT YOU UP ON THE REBOND... HOLLA ATCHA GIRL... omg your white.. i dont even talk like that and im considered a wigger....
-JeNnA

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what do you do when you like a guy but he has a gf but he says he likes you... is it possible to have feelings for more than one person??

yes it is.. but the question should be is it right... no its not.. if a guy says he likes you then he needs to be fully committed to you and you only... if he has a gf then you need to know that it is the red flag to stop trying... he is not on the market... your part is to tell him... i like you but you have a gf and that tells me i cant like you... tell him he needs to be loyal to his gf... once a guy isnt loyal he will never be loyal again... sorry hun but he is wrong..

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