Member Since: August 10, 2005
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Last Update: August 10, 2005
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I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years now, and a few months ago he confessed to me that he really likes me. i told him i wasn't sure about my feelings (beyond friendship) and that i didn't want to rush anything, and he was okay with it. we don't see each other too often, but i enjoy the time we spend together. i'd be ready to take the relationship further because we really are a good match personality-wise and i do like him a lot, but the only thing that bothers me about him are his looks. i hate admitting that to myself and i'm ashamed that i let it stand in my way. he's a really great guy, but physically he's like a 3 on 10! i know i should be able to, well, look past his looks, but it's hard to imagine being more than friends with someone you aren't really attracted to. i'm just so angry with myself...but i can't help it...i can't see myself being able to introduce him to people as my boyfriend or kissing him. it drives me up the wall being unsure of what i want just because he's far from good-looking! i've never thought of myself as shallow; i've been with other guys who couldn't have been considered that cute and it didn't bother me because i liked them for their personality, but this guy is just so far from even that...what's worse is that recently i met another guy who's really cute and who seems interested in me, and even though i don't feel nearly as much of a connection with him as i feel with my other friend, i'm tempted by him because he's just...so much more tempting!! i don't want to hurt anyone and i don't want to make the wrong choice because something stupid is holding me back. sorry for this being so long, but if anyone has any advice i'd appreciate it VERY much! (link)
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Im a boy but ive had this happen to me cause (not tryin to brag but im that kida hot jock everyone looks up to).You should like just keep on talking to him but see if you can help him out on his looks dont make it obvieous that you think he is ugly though. Alright!!
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it may be long not sure, but please do not delete this lol- ok i just moved to maine from florida and so yea i dont know very many people but i started going to church and so theres this boy i think is really cute seems soo nice and today i was there and we were sittin across from eachtoher on the couches and i was reading and looked up and he was looking right at me stayed there for about 1 min and lady goes you going to finish readin i looked down and its like i totally forgot how to read lol, i really want this boy to like notice me alot cause yea i really need a guy up here in maine, see we start school in september and we go to the same school and same grade. you think theres anyway i could get him to notice me a lil more before school starts? and if you think by what i typed if it seems like he notices me at all?? * kim (link)
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I personaly think if he is cuter than you you need to put on lotz of make up!J/k but u should really start to get to know him as in talk to him not stair at him all day!
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