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Hi,

When it comes to giving advice and sorting out 'sticky' situations I've been around the block a few times!! All my friends call me the agony aunt and between us all (me and friends) I don't think theirs much we haven't had to deal with!! I'll talk about anything and don't mind getting personal. What you will always get from me is the truth (whether its what you want to hear or not!). I really do care about YOU, that's why I'm hear on this site - to help.

I'm listening...

Hopefully talk to you soon, take care

Joshy,

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i have a really immature and pathetic problem thats made up of a few little problems. but it's REALLY bothering me and stressing me out.

this part isnt really a problem; two days ago the most amazing, sweetest thing happened to me. "matt" is my best friend. he means everything to me. i am so comfortable with him, can be myself around him, can tell him anything, and our relationship is so important to me. it's so hard to do that with anyone else because i'm kind of shy and insecure. but matt gives me butterflies

Hi hun,

First of all before I say anything else at all - say YES to matt!!

Its clear to anyone how you feel about him and as you say this is not just 'some boy' what you two have is really special. I always say it's the things we don't do we live to regret. Your two 'friends' will just have to grow up and get a grip on reality. Don't imagine for one second that you are being in any way selfish or un-thoughtful - its them! I'm afraid instead of being happy for you they've decided to be jealous and spiteful and all I can say about them is with friends like that, who needs enemies? I understand that these people where close friends and that what they are doing hurts but it's them that have caused it not you. I'm certain Matt will be there to support you and look after you.

The other issue of Kayla and ally 'self harming' is always a difficult issue to tackle but unfortunately while they have cut you out and are being so awful to you there's not a lot you can do to help and that's not your fault. Can I just say I admire the way that despite how horrible they have been to you - you still care. If only they had a brain between the two of them the might be able to see you're a pretty perfect best friend! I think your mom telling their parents seems like a pretty sensible idea, that way someone else knows what's going on and can do something about it. If they hadn't turned on you it would have been different as you would have been in a position to help but remember with this situation and with everything that's happened this isn't something you should have to worry about, so try not to too much?

The very best of luck with Matt - keep me posted and send me a wedding invite (please make certain you give me plenty time to buy a new outfit!)

JOSH
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