Member Since: November 30, 2014
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Last Update: November 30, 2014
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I was in a long distance relationship for almost six months. (I am pretty young, so that seems like a decent amount of time for me.) We were completely in love with each other, and he (we'll call him Henry) even came all the way from Indiana to visit me in Cali for a week. After fighting constantly over stupid things said and done, Henry broke up with me. He made it clear that he definitely wanted to start dating again after I matured a bit. I was heartbroken, but I was so hopeful that he would come running back in less than a month. Two months went by and he still hadn't asked me out again - or even talked to me at all. I decided to move on. I started dating a new guy who lives less than a mile away from me! He (we'll call him Jack) has liked me since sixth grade (i'm in high school now). I am exceptionally happy in this relationship, but I simply cannot get over Henry. Even though I never actually see or talk to him, I think about and cry over him almost everyday. I can't decide if I should ditch Jack, my current loving, compassionate, and "best friend forever" boyfriend, and sit here waiting patiently for a boy halfway across the country.... or I can stay with my current boyfriend (Jack) and try my best to forget Henry. Keep in mind that I believe I truly love both of these lovely people. Of course, there are so many details I can't list because of the character limit, but I stated the main ideas. :/ thank you! (link)
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I think it's unfair that you entered your relationship when you knew you were still in love with Henry. If Jack knew about any of this could you imagine the hurt on his face? Honestly, I don't think Henry is the one for you. He made that clear when he broke up with you and stopped talking to you, he's not even trying to get you back when he can. So to avoid heartbreak, don't go back to him because he clearly isn't the one. As far as Jack goes, I think you guys might honestly be meant for each other, just not at this time. You need to take a break from relationships and try and get over Henry, then maybe if things are still there between you and Jack, then start things up again, if not, find someone new. :)
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