Member Since: January 2, 2008
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Last Update: January 8, 2008
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I don't know what else to do, this might be long but I really need help.
I'm 18/f and my bf recently broke up with me since I decided to respect my religion and not "do" things with him when he comes to visit my country next. (We both have diff. religions). So when he was breaking up (he did it online, he lives in another country, he studies there), he threatened me with things like "i will f*** you up so bad", "you will SO regret this", "i will show you what it means to get me angry", "you SO will suffer" and so on. And he will do those things when he visits his family (his family lives where I live..). He knows which uni I go to, and knows where my house is. He beat up his ex-gf before and told me the story as a "warning" not to piss him off.. I'm terrified, I think he plans on physically hurting me. There's about 13 more days till he gets here.. I've already planned on talking to my uni counselor about this but I need help from people around my age. I'm not strong to cope with this, I haven't slept for days getting nightmares of him coming after me, I've considered calling the airport and notifying them not to let him in the country but if I do that, I'd just make a fool out of myself. Please please please, I'm really panicking =*(
Thanks for your time, I appreciate it greatly.
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i know that many people have told you this already but you can not hear it to much in this situation!tell people!tell your parents ,tell your friends,guy friends as well if you have any,try being around other people the whole time,if the neigbours know it its even better so that if he comes over to your place they will know its not just a couple-fight but something serious!Tell the uni-councelor!and if you have a pepperspray its even better...if you dont i think a hairspray(thy got mini bottles as well to fit in your purce)that will do the job as well...i wouldnt suggest any other kind of weappon,because if you arent really good at using it he can take it and use it against you...also as soon as you see him,call someone...just for safety...i mean even if you see him just across the street ,talking to someone else,call a friend,or anyone else and tell them where you are and keep talking to them on the phone until you are away from him...that will scare him off a bit cause when the other one is on the line he might b afraid that he will b discovered very easy..and even if that doesnt scare him off the person on the other line can inform the police imidiatly of where you r and what is going on,and he will b able to come for help aswell...dont worry,be calm,and take as many procautions as you can!dont b afraid you will make a fool out of your self!these things have to b taken serious no matter what!
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